"Guys never feel like having a conversation until they are in one"

jimii · 2012-04-06T16:04:04+00:00

Right. To add a little to that:

No matter where you are, make yourself at home, chill, fuck around and chat with people. "Blend in" to the environment.

Approach people and chat with them like they're already your friend (almost everyone at a club is open to conversation with anyone who carries themselves with an air of confidence). Joke about and most importantly, HAVE FUN (no fun, no point).

You might have to force it at first, just to "prove to yourself" you can do it but eventually, it should feel natural.

dontmindmeimdrunk · 2012-04-06T16:46:53+00:00

warm up sets

This is a very important concept that I've only recently noticed (with the help of MDMA, but still). The sooner you approach your first set of people for the night, the better. (E.g. if you take the bus to town, it can be someone at the bus stop!) For some reason this makes subsequent interactions much easier that night. Maybe it just takes some pressure off. And the longer you take to approach that first set, the harder it's going to be.

rpcrazy · 2012-04-06T20:33:43+00:00

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rmbarnes · 2012-04-07T02:23:49+00:00

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rmbarnes · 2012-04-07T10:32:25+00:00

This is a good quote from a good book.

Whisper · 2012-04-07T00:46:06+00:00

Nothing like absorbing misandrist attitudes to motivate you... not!

How about this: Guys like to talk about stuff that interests them, when and how they feel like it. Just like women.

Be genuine, have conversations you like. Enjoy what you're doing. And don't tell yourself that maleness is somehow a defect.

Title	"Guys never feel like having a conversation until they are in one"
Author	sithyiscool
Upvotes	116
Comments	8
Date	April 6, 2012 3:13 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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