First day on here, really loving the community and I'm digging the advice.

All of it seems perfectly doable and I even tried some things today. The only thing that seems odd is the kino or touching. I NEVER have laid a finger on any girl I've flirted with. Not because I think it's crossing a boundary but rather it has never seem appropriate?

Many times when I flirt with girls it is in elevators, the dining hall at school and there's this one HB 9.5 in one of my classes who is reasonably friendly (I'd place her in neutral).

Also how do you reckon a man's own looks apply? I've recently lost some weight and I am no longer "fat" per say (Well you do the math guys I'm 5'10/5'11 about 223-226 lbs with wide shoulders. I ain't completely out of the chub woods quite yet) Size 38 Jeans).

Thanks in advance. You guys are great!