There is only one you.

Hey Seddit, this is a little mantra I came up with which I like to read before I go out. I feel like it summarizes the ideal mindset fairly well.

You are the epitome of the modern confident male. You are well groomed, well dressed, and well spoken. You are interesting, articulate, and witty. You blow the vast majority of the competition out of the water. Because of this, they fear you and attempt to phase you by putting you down. But they will inevitably fail and falter at the hands of their own crippling insecurities, while you enjoy success, at peace with who you are. You are assertive, dominant, and in control, yet you are kind, caring, and humble. You are the man every girl wants to lay down next to at the end of the day. You are the prize. She wants you to approach her, she wants you to talk to her, she wants you to kiss her. Your voice makes her laugh, your gaze makes her smile, your touch makes her heart race. You have no need to try to impress her; you have nothing to prove to her, through your interaction you are merely showing her what you already know to be true. If she fails to realize what you are, that is her loss. There are many other women like her, but there is only one you.