I hear all these PUAs talk about embracing those weird eccentricities about yourself. I really try to own my uniqueness but I get called weird a lot...like a lot. A lot of times the people who say it don't say it negatively but a lot of times they do. And I just feel like sometimes when I come across as too weird it puts me in a place where I seem too...off to be the guy this girl is attracted to.

Any suggestions? Maybe I should downplay my uniqueness a bit just how unique and special I am and push to find more common ground? Or should I just relax, be really weird and take what I get?