Poll: How many hours do you spend learning about talking to women compared to going out and talking to women?

Virindi_UO · 2012-11-16T07:48:47+00:00

i live vicariously through you guys and stay in my basement.

adviceneed · 2012-11-16T05:22:30+00:00

I read mostly /r/seduction stuff, no books or anything, and I watch youtube videos too, probably around an hour or two a day.

I go out about maybe once or twice a month. By go out meaning go out to a bar/club with the sole purpose of hitting on girls.

lonely_ent_guy · 2012-11-16T14:19:43+00:00

After recently starting a relationship with a girl I'm quite happy with, most of what I do is testing things you do to maintain an alpha frame and sexual aura while being in a relationship, which isn't that easy for me yet. I work a lot, so I can't go out as much as some of you guys, but I try to at least use 1 weekend night every week for going out. The other night is spent with my woman because we can't see each other during work days.

I read all the interesting threads on seddit and try to help out newcomers with stuff I've learned in the past half year. To be perfectly honest, sometimes I wish I wasn't in a relationship, just because those first few dates, the switch between casual and sexual and all the stuff you experience when freshly seducing a girl are an amazing feeling. I try to flirt every chance I get, but I can't take it any further than verbal seduction. However I'm working hard on not losing my new found momentum just because I'm in a relationship. I keep coming up with new stuff to treat my lady with and I still love teasing her as much as I did on our first few nights.

PUAollie · 2012-11-16T06:21:16+00:00

Too much time online. Which I think is probably a pretty common problem among learners. Ideally, a person should spend more time in-field than learning theory.

BlueHobo · 2012-11-16T14:04:38+00:00

I'd say I have about a 20:1 ratio of reading:interacting unless you count my existing girl friends as well as new people.

Trying to change it all though, I even had my first cool response to a shit test last night!

TofuTofu · 2012-11-16T19:48:57+00:00

10 hours out for every hour online. Anything less is cheating yourself.

ThaDonKilluminati · 2012-11-17T03:12:57+00:00

I read too much and don't put in enough time practicing what I read to actually get something out of it :/

iwearawatchsometimes · 2012-11-20T19:44:31+00:00

4hrs/.5hr on the study and practice ratio.

I know its a confidence issue and it stems from my mental illness. I feel like me pushing myself into a social situation, meeting new people and trying to manage whats going on in my brain is to much.

Gotta fix my brain biz and then tackle the fear of a group.

Title	Poll: How many hours do you spend learning about talking to women compared to going out and talking to women?
Author	hegetsthegirl
Upvotes	7
Comments	10
Date	November 16, 2012 5:11 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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