Sexy music suggestions for the "Cook dinner at my place" date. What do you use?

headabovethewater · 2013-01-11T19:00:08+00:00

I've said it before and I'll say it again: Frank Ocean's Channel Orange. Here's a step-by-step guide to help you get the job done.

b204257 · 2013-01-11T19:32:34+00:00

John Legend
Buble
Frank Ocean
Frank Sinatra
Deano
Norah jones
Jazzy shit and Rn'b

Though weirdly enough the best sex i ever had was to some hardcore music. Defeater was the band lol

beardfacekilla · 2013-01-11T18:10:58+00:00

Pandora station: Ray LaMontagne. Soulful and sexy. Women swoon over him.

I use Airtunes to stream it from my iPhone to my living room stereo, then switch it to some speakers in my bedroom when sexy time comes.

Untraced · 2013-01-11T20:09:14+00:00

Don't put on obviously sexy music. She'll think you're being a cheeseball and trying to woo her. Just put on a playlist that is "what I had on before I went out", but structure the playlist so that it goes from normal stuff (I dunno, throw some Weezer & Neil Young or whatever in there) to stuff that's more sexy. Name the playlist "chillout" or something. AFC Adam has a dope video about this. Think it's on one of his 21 conference videos.

Then gradually go deeper. My favourite sexy albums (most girls are completely into these):

Isaac Hayes - Hot Buttered Soul
Marvin Gaye - What's Going On
Curtis Mayfield - Superfly
Dusty Springfield - Dusty in Memphis (my ex had first orgasm ever while this album was playing)

To lead into this style of music, you might wanna put on some groovy 60's jazz that isn't overtly sexual. Something like Lee Morgan's stuff from the 60's. Or Freddie Hubbard. El Michel's Affair - Sound of the City is a good album to start with too. Not too sexy, but just enough to logically lead into the vibe of the music above.

The key with sexy music is to make it seem like you're not trying to put sexy music on. You're just a sexual man who listens to sexual music. As soon as she goes "Oh, he's putting his 'sex tunes' on," she's gonna be turned off.

Depending on the girl, I love putting on Dr Dre - 2001 or Jay Z - Black Album. Sexy as hell, but gnarly as fuck too. Make her feel like a bad girl.

If she's not into old music, play some Daft Punk. Discovery album.

Bahamas - Barchords is a fucking DOPE album from this year & is sexy as hell while being inconspicuous. You can give off the illusion of being up on new stuff. Check out the Best of 2012 lists and see if there's anything you might be into. It's a great time to get into new music cause everyone's buzzing about records from the past year.

I like Daniel Rossen - Silent Hour/Golden Mile for when a girl just shows up.

Flying Lotus - Until the Quiet Comes is pretty sexy. Experimental hip-hop.

SBTRKT - SBTRKT

EDIT: I could do this all fuckin day. I love sexy music.

kungfutitties · 2013-01-11T18:57:54+00:00

This on repeat

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2a4gyJsY0mc

IAMTHEDEATHMACHINE · 2013-01-11T19:32:32+00:00

Maybe not quite what you're after, but when it comes to sex music, I like The XX and Sam Sparro.

unguidedCDN87 · 2013-01-11T19:45:49+00:00

This 8tracks playlist works for me every time. Makes for casual background music, or a steamy bedroom romp... either way, check it out here

2013-01-11T20:48:16+00:00

Massive Attack.

Portishead.

Flying Lotus.

SterlingDraper · 2013-01-11T21:06:25+00:00

It's not exactly smooth or sensual, but the best sex of my life was had to Death From Above 1979.

matrex07 · 2013-01-11T21:09:44+00:00

Gayngs. No comparison, so smoooth.

Crystal Rope

iamjacksotheraccount · 2013-01-11T21:19:14+00:00

Lots of great stuff in this thread so far.... I'd only add Kind of Blue by Miles Davis.

gabriot · 2013-01-11T18:37:00+00:00

Massive Attack is always my favorite to get in a nasty mood to

Risingson

Man Next Door

Dissolved Girl

All very sexy

insickness · 2013-01-11T22:06:28+00:00

Burial

Title	Sexy music suggestions for the "Cook dinner at my place" date. What do you use?
Author	beardfacekilla
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Date	January 11, 2013 5:58 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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