So I recently turned 21 and have (finally) been able to try out my game in nightclubs and such. Some background on where I'm at w.r.t game:

I'm in a weird place because I feel like my game is pretty solid in the early to mid phases, but I rarely close. On a regular night I'll have a great time, dance with a ton of girls, I used to get dancefloor makeouts often but I've fallen out of favor of those just cuz it feels kinda dirty and most girls in that environment are not very good kissers. My specialty is probably dance game. When I'm in state, which has been most every night in recent memory, I just don't give a fuck on the floor and chicks have a blast dancing with me.

Ok, now here is my situation: I go to college in Indiana, but I'm co-op student, meaning every 4 months I alternate between school and coming down to Savannah, GA to work. While I consider myself to be pretty attractive (6', Latino, work out, dress pretty well, confident, can dance) in practice I have very limited sex experience. I have yet to have had a girlfriend since I have been sexually active and not a lot of, uh, repeat customers. Ideally, what I would like is to get a girlfriend, and in this way learn my way around the sack while enjoying the company of someone cool and learning about relationships, etc. However, my co-op situation doesn't really afford me the opportunity for a girlfriend unless I can accept consistent long-distance breaks (I do not think I can). So I have to gain experience while remaining single. I suppose what I should be shooting for is to develop FWB's, then?

What I see lots of here on seddit is success measured by same-night f-closes. I struggle with this for many reasons. 1) I never want to commit to a target because I'm having too much damn fun and don't want to give her my night. 2) I don't get drunk generally when I go out, have usually 2-3 beers, but the girls always seem to be shitfaced when it gets to be around smash-time. I get that rapey feeling when they're drunker than me and I lose total interest in the lay. 3) I don't have a means to disarm the damn cockblock friends girls always seem to have around. It would help to have a good wingman but mine sucks, he just gets shitfaced and disappears around 1. I do, however, have a pretty attractive female friend who has expressed an interest in being my wingwoman/pivot, but I don't really know how to use her and I'm not sure she can help me with this particular aspect of the night. 4)I guess I'm kind of a romantic and don't usually particularly feel like I'm necessarily ready to give her the bizness until I know her a little better and, more importantly, soberly. When I go for same-night lays it's more just cuz I feel like it's what I'm supposed to be doing and if not then I'll lose her and she'll forget about me.

I don't want to go out to the clubs in search of sexual partners for the night, I want to be able to call upon them. I am solid up through getting the phone number, however I seem to have a very high flake rate. If I am looking for FWB relationships, should I be trying to start them off with a same-night f-close, or get girls numbers I meet in nightclubs and day-2 them (and if so, should be like a date? I don't really get how to work this frame), or am I better just sticking to day game and leaving nightclubs for fun exclusively?

Sorry this is a really vague, ill-defined question and also a wall of text.