How to become the guy that women chase?

winningTheInterview · 2013-01-23T03:34:34+00:00

"Focus on your dreams" doesn't mean "spend all of your time doing things that have nothing to do with girls." It means that your personal story needs to include things other than girls.

Fortunately for you, it sounds like your story already does include things other than girls! So now, you should spend time increasing your social capital by learning how to talk to girls. This is done by talking to girls. Go approach.

2013-01-23T04:55:18+00:00

Dude that's a big ask for a silver bullet solution.

The unhelpful truth is that you spend a lot of time developing, practicing and perfecting your game, then you build a social circle in which you are a leader and surrounded by women. And to top it all off, you have a strong identity which manifests itself in your body language and fashion sense. Voila! Random girls will hit on you hard.

Except that takes months or years of focused practice. Definitely aim for that. But I don't think a 1000 word comment can tell you everything you need to know to get there.

Now, there are some little things you can to be chased in the context of a particular conversation.

1) Peacock. Wear a boa. Don a cowboy hat. Wear a suit and suspenders in a dive bar. Women will approach you. 2) Practice gaming from a frame of "She is always hitting on me." Turn just about everything she does into a reason to call her out for hitting on you. Say all the things that the cliche, over-pursued woman would say

Like:

Oh my god, you just want me for my body!
What am I just a piece of meat to you?
You're such a player. I'm just another notch in your belt
I can tell you're trying to get me drunk so you can seduce me. I should warn you I'm not that easy. You need to wine and dine me if you want to get in my pants.
My mom warned me about girls like you.

Plus a million others . . .

If they are sharp and fun, the girls will adopt the role of the pursuer and play along. Even though it is just for fun, the frame becomes real as they continue to touch you and you jokingly put them off.

readonlyuser · 2013-01-23T03:39:52+00:00

If you're talking about at a party or bar, etc., this is pretty straightforward.

Look your best
Be surrounded by women
Be centered and unreactive

nittutt · 2013-01-23T12:20:05+00:00

To actually become that man you have to stop trying to become the man. Girls chase men that have the abundance mentality. The men that don't really care about them as they have so many girls in their life.

UnapologeticalyAlive · 2013-01-23T19:25:22+00:00

Focus on your dreams and talk to people. Get into the habit of talking to everyone, not just good-looking girls.

2013-01-24T07:57:06+00:00

Join social activities which include women. This is very important. Put all the women you meet in the friendzone and observe them my friend.

Guess what? Every successful hunter must observe his prey before he becomes a master. If you don't use the correct bait you'll be a masterbaiter.

Just kidding. But for real, observing the way women behave around different kinds of men is incredibly helpful when learning game. Ironically, you also begin to attract them at some point.

tempaskmen · 2013-01-25T17:45:31+00:00

Stop paying child support.

itsmevichet · 2013-01-23T15:03:38+00:00

Inner game and outer game.

A good product and a good salesman.

You can have one or the other down really good, but you'll be king of the marketplace with both.

UnapologeticalyAlive · 2013-01-23T04:00:25+00:00

Being a girl myself, I would suggest that you actually show some signs of being interested in girls. All that body language is bullshit, and, for all we know, you could be gay. And most of the whole "guy that girls chase" thing is subjective. You really just need to have a good personality and good looks.

Title	How to become the guy that women chase?
Author	Future_Alpha
Upvotes	15
Comments	22
Date	January 23, 2013 2:56 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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