So, this is mostly a reaction post to some guy's bait and switch about an orgy.

Anyway, this is field-tested (and how - it's worked for me at least a dozen times, both in college and in the real world), and Vichet approved. So game on.

Prerequisites and supplies (the hard part):

  • Solid experience seducing in field and a reputation for (and experience with) creating a fun atmosphere - it will help if you're extroverted, won't necessarily hurt if you're introverted. The key point is that the atmosphere you create has to be fun.
  • Lots of mixed gender friends who have good self-esteem, and little/no body image issues. Ratio should never swing more than 6:4 in either gender's direction.
  • Elaborating on the previous point, the girls have to be girls you wouldn't mind seeing naked, and the guys have to be guys who don't mind being naked in front of other guys.
  • The men need to be guys you would be proud to wing with.
  • One (1) exhibitionist girl - not necessary, but helps a LOT.
  • Liquor, or any other social grease.
  • A game that involves said social grease. I usually go with Kings, as poker with this many people gets complex.

How to get everyone naked:

  1. Start with a regular get together. Even though I'm extroverted, I prefer a more intimate atmosphere for this kind of party, and won't invite more than 8 or 10 people to the shindig. Have some music playing. Make some killer drinks. Dance. Tell jokes. KINO everyone - pat the guys on the shoulder and grab the girls by the waist. If they know you well enough to come to your party, they're cool with this.
  2. After everyone's good and buzzed, invite them to sit down and play a party game. I usually start with Kings - something very simple that doesn't require a lot of coordination, and is tons of fun.
  3. Introduce a strip rule. Ask everyone if they're cool with it. If someone is obviously uncomfortable, ask them specifically if they're okay. If not, womp womp - no one getting naked today. But, if the crowd response is all shrugs and "okay, sure," game on. Keep telling jokes. Or that one story about how you ended up in a Cambodian whorehouse disco and your mom came along.
  4. The strip rule should be something that isn't severe ("take off all your clothes if you use a pronoun!" - a girl suggested that once. Even I shot it down. Going for the jugular isn't good escalation! We compromised and everyone ended up naked anyway), but occurs frequently enough to matter. "Remove an item of clothing every time you curse." You can base it on other card draws, too, like "Every time someone picks 6 for chicks, the girls have to remove an item of clothing, and every time someone picks 5 for guys, guys have to remove an article of clothing." If you base your rule off a card, make sure there are enough draws left of that card for everyone to eventually be in their skivvies.
  5. As you get closer to full monty, you WILL have to negotiate with the women as to whether they're getting completely naked. This is where the one exhibitionist girl comes in. And she will come through with flying colors. She's looking for an excuse to get naked. If you're winning at life, she's also physically attractive. This will spark the powder keg of sexual tension, excitement, and fun in the room, and will usually be all that's needed for the rest of the girls (if they've gotten this far) to get on board.
  6. If you DON'T have an exhibitionist girl, you have to zone in on the girl you think is most likely to have fun being naked, and egg her on by gaming your own state of nakedness with hers. She will be the one who lights the keg. Jokes, kino, the whole shebang. Make her feel comfortable. The rest of the girls will tend to feel comfortable if the most naked girl in the group is comfortable.
  7. That's pretty much it. Once you've gotten the group (getting a group to decide something is a little different than a single person) to decide that they're willing to take clothes off, it's just a matter of time 'til you're all sipping Collinses while listening to D'Angelo. Naked.

Rule, contingencies, backup plans:

  1. This type of game is akin to a long con, minus the tricking people - you have to have a reputation going in, you have to convince a lot of people, and you have to set up logistics. It's literally escalating with multiple people at the same time.
  2. It's not all disadvantages. Group-think weighs heavily here. You better fucking have the guys ready to depant before they even enter the house - do NOT invite a party pooper guy. Then it's just about convincing a majority of the fun girls (they're all fun) that they'd all have a better time naked. So, as long as 3/5 of them have that idea, the other two on the fence will try it out. Don't make them regret it.
  3. If someone is uncomfortable going full monty, or even half monty, stop escalating. Their protests will ruin the fun atmosphere you've been creating, and will sour your future parties for others who are on the fence about the night's activities. Just don't invite them next time to the kind of party that might end up like this.
  4. Everyone being naked in the same room is not your excuse to be creepy or change into a "herp derp I see boobies" kind of state. Keep your cool. When you're all naked, you should be exuding the kind of confidence like you were born to live this way, and that it's just a day in the life. It makes everyone else more comfortable, and more open to following your lead.

Anyway, here are types of people that I've done this with, so that you don't go thinking "oh, that's only because Vichet hangs out with brainless whores":

  • Engineers
  • Artists
  • Dancers
  • Writers
  • Coders
  • Gamers
  • Nerds
  • Jocks

All in the same room, at many different times in many different combinations and permutations. Gettin' naked. Word up.

Basically, this is just an escalation ladder that you apply to a mixed group. Start small, keep escalating. If you've invited fun people (you can be fun regardless of your "social label"), I guarantee you they won't refuse a good strip game if a) everyone else is doing it and b) it seems like fun.

What you'll find is that nudists are onto something - hanging out naked is pretty awesome. Everyone's just cool with it - if you invite the right people, anyway. Again, this follows escalation ladder, rules, so you have to escalate to find out whether everyone's cool.

And then you might have an orgy. That's really up to you. And everyone else in the room. There's a whole other subset of etiquette behind that you can find over at r/sex. This post was mostly a guide on using seduction on groups in a specific scenario.