Whether you like it or not, pickup is a numbers game. There is some ounce of skill involved but at the end of the day the more girls you approach, the higher your chances will be of getting laid. This is especially true for daygame. I'm the kind of guy who wants to win and succeed in what I do. I look at my mistakes and work around them and try to always be my best for next time. But when I do my best the outcome is out of my control.

No matter how good you are, it will always be a numbers game. If you actively go out and do approaches you'll understand this concept in no time. Let's say you approach 20 girls in one day. Out of those 20 girls you get 7 of their numbers. Out of those 7 girls, 3 of them reply to your first text. Out of those 3, one of them is willing to go on a date. And that 1 girl may or may not have sex with you. Numbers game.

There's no way to avoid it because there are too many factors out of your control. Even if the girl doesn't have a boyfriend and your game is top notch she still won't go on a date with you.

Mom always told me I could do anything if I put my mind to it. In terms of pickup though I guess not.