First field report, please bare with me.

Quick background on me: Long time AFC, super long time "nice guy", "funny guy", and "friendzone guy". Recently developed strong inner game and confidence, and learned to be straight up with my intent via seddit. Thank you. I love you.

(quick aside: best line I've learned from seddit, hands down, is when you're getting LMR you say "I don't want you to do anything you're not comfortable with". Works every time).

She messages me, and there's no picture on her profile. In the message she says it's because of her job but she's willing to send pics. I take of leap of faith; she turns out to be an HB7. Couple emails and we switch to text. I use the "well, you don't seem like a crazy cat lady so if you want to continue chatting, here's my number....". That shit is golden btw and it's worked on many others for escalating to text. Their text is always them validating to me that they're not a crazy cat lady.

During our first text convo I "interrupt" before it gets to the "so what do you do?" stage with "so when do you want to grab a drink?". You could tell she was excited that things were moving fast, that I was being very direct with my intent, and was not pussy footing around. I personally like to flirt lightly on text but mainly use it for logistics.

We end up setting up a drink for mid afternoon on a Saturday, which was the next day. A buddy and I were already planning on going to a public event where there's beer, music, lots of chicks, etc. My plan was that I was going to meet this girl first, and assuming she was cool, I was going to invite her to hang out with my friend and I for the event and possibly the rest of the night. My mindset was very outcome independent. My wingman is perfect because he's basically a "non-seddit PUA" and was determined to "peel one off a 3 set" once this all went down. So he's not a typical third wheel and operates independently.

Fast forward to date. My buddy goes off and does his own thing. I meet HB7 outside a starbucks hug and then walk to a bar with a big patio that I had chosen... strategically. I have to reiterate that the hug is mandatory. NO HANDSHAKES.

As we go through the door/gate to the patio (which is the front entrance), I do a quick/light lower back touch to "help her through the door". Nothing much but it established contact very quickly. I tell the hostess where I want us to sit, and make sure that I choose a seat next to not across from her. This was learned through trial/error.

I've always been pretty good at holding eye contact, not letting "awkward silence" be awkward, and making good conversation. Where I usually fail is in NOT INITIATING KINO quickly enough to establish my intent. I was determined to hit a home run or go down swinging this time.

During the drinks I do light kino. She makes a funny joke I laugh and touch her arm. She tells me about her brother being a pilot and that sometimes she'll get private flights to places - I dust her shoulder off but then neg her for being not being as exciting as her siblings. I put my leg where it's comfy for me but very close to hers, and multiple times there's contact that neither of us move away from.

I invite her to come drink with my buddy and I and we go to the event. We're walking around right next to eachother, arms at eachothers side, and I was getting quite a few IOI's already. Plus I had already put my arm on her lower back a bunch of times. Fuck it, grab her hand and lead her around. It works. Now pretty much any kino from her is acceptable. An hour or so later my friend goes to meetup with this girl he texted, makes up a reason why we should go our separate ways for now and meet up later (good wing man, he knows what needs to happen next - the kiss).

--Kitty Purr-- My PUA friend taught me this before we went out that day. This is a kino move that I used once I had established that putting my arm around her and on her lower back was ok. First, imagine you're petting/rubbing a cat underneath the chin. You're using a couple fingers and lightly rubbing under their neck/face/whiskers/whatever. The cat likes it, purrs, and wants more. And if you stop petting the cat it'll go crazy trying to get more! \

SO, put your arm around her, preferably on her lower back, or the back of her arm, and give her a couple of "kitty purr" finger curls. Then stop the "kitty purr", hold your spot for a second and pull your arm away. This solidifies your intent that you want her sexually and it's "your little secret" with her. BUT, the pulling away part is key because she's "purring", you pull away, and now she'll come after you wanting more.

I walk her to a park area, holding hands. We get to this statue, she's reading the plaque and I just say "hey". She looks at me. I say "come here" while looking into her eyes. She knows what that means and we make out for a couple minutes. I break the contact and say "lets get something to eat". This left her wanting more because later she initiated more kissing.

We get mexican food, I order taco's, but the meat is super greasy and it makes my taco's wet. During the convo she talks about how good of a cook she is (and she's 1/2 mexican). So, in the voice of "ain't nobody got time for that" I say "Ain't nobody get wet taco's in your kitchen!". She laughs. I pause for about 5 seconds and then say in a serious tone "Of course... I'm talking strictly about food here". She blushes and laughs again.

At one point in the night she's in my arms, she leans up and says something my ear. I lean to hers and whisper "I want to tell you a secret". I was improvising and had no followup. Fuck. Luckily I came up with "IDK, I don't really have a secret I just wanted to whisper sweet nothings into your ear". She ate that up like a wet taco. More kissing.

Getting later into the night, I ask her hows she's getting home. She indicates she's driving and asks me how I'm getting home. I say "why, are you asking me to come home with you?", which was kinda AFC looking back, but I recovered later with "So when are you driving me back to your place?". She switched gears on me and said "idk, what about your place?"

The rest is history. #F-close

P.S. She made mention in the morning that she had never done that before, meaning gone home on the first date from an online site. The lesson here is, take her on an adventure, assume attraction, be the fun guy but with direct intent who is outcome independent. Remember, the girl is always secretly rooting for you to sweep her up off her feet.... and into bed.

TL;DR: All the normal stuff: eye contact, direct intent, kino early, lead the conversation, lead the date, change venues, kitty purr kino, once it's sexual be direct with your intent to go home with her that night - and hold eye contact like never before when you bring that up.