Maaan frustrating night for me. Had pretty bad AA even with a lot of liquid courage consumed (guess you get used to it the more you do it).

The first venue you went to I walked through the crowd to go upstairs with friends and this HB8 put her arms round me and started dancing with me - I responded by putting my arms on her hips and danced with her. Her HB7 friend started shaking her head at her signaling no and she let go (seeing this I ejected and went to find my friends - how should I have handled this?). I didn't approach anymore after and we went to the next venue after 30 minutes.

After my friend ended up talking to these 2 girls (HB6 and HB7) and I wasn't sure if he wanted me to wing for him but he seemed to be holding the conversation down for both of them (he's a natural). We ended up outside and smoking and he was still talking to them but ignoring the rest of us so when we had to go I said to him, "hey man we're going inside now, who's are your new friends" (unsure if I should have jumped in, he was holding good rapport with both of them but stuff would have died down in the end). We went back inside after and we bought drinks and started dancing with them girls. It was when we started dancing where I AFCed out, I was too nervous to Kino escalate, I didn't want to get closer to them and isolate one of them (I'm a terrible dancer). In the end the girls went off and they ended up having other guys who had the balls to dance closer to them on them (story of my life).

One of my friends ended up getting too drunk and was kicked out and we spent 45 minutes trying to figure out what to do with him since he was too drunk to go anywhere else. We ended up sacrificing one of us to take him home (only to find out he lost the key in the end - bloody idiot).

Me and another friend went to get a subway sandwich convinced that the mood wad killed after having to wait so long just to sort our drunk friend out. We ended up at a gay club in the end meeting with the rest of our friends again. They were in the smoking area and there were a group of 4 of them trying to convince this older womsn to sleep with the birthday boy of the group. I then spot a HB9 with perfect tits sitting next to my friend smoking (friend was ignoring her obviously too drunk). I go up to him and ask him if he's okay (the HB9 thought I was talking to her, but I ignored her and made sure my body was facing away from her). I then asked her to move up so I can sit next to my friend - I notice she was speaking a foreign language so I asked her "what language are you speaking?" And she was like "I'm not telling you!" And respond "why? Your accent sounds very interesting! Where are you from?" She says "you have to guess, I give you 3 guesses". Conversation went on with me trying to figure out where she's from and eventually died when she finished her cigarette, I shook her hand and said nice meeting you.

HB4 sits next to me and my drunk natural friend was bugging me to ask her how she is and I kept saying no. In the end it annoyed and said "my friend wants to ask you if you're okay" and force him to talk to her between me. I then got up and told him to sit next to her while I sit with my other friends.

I spot a super hot girl in a red dress (I find girls in red really sexy). She was with her gay friend and she approaches us and asks if anyone was gay and we all said no. I say hello to both of them and introduce myself and got friendly with the gay guy to show them I'm friendly. My friend who was still trying to get the birthday boy laid was telling her that he wants to see if he can get lucky and totally adding awkwardness in the air - she stepped back in the end and I thought "no, I'm not letting them ruined this" got up, manned the fuck up and talked to her. I got to know her, she was a dance student wanting to get into teaching dance GCSE she was moving onto the second year of university (leaving town in 3 weeks to go back to university). I'm the end I said "look, you're cool and I think you're gorgeous. Give me your number" and #closed her. She ended up going to the dance floor with her gay friend, I kissed her on the cheek goodbye (cringe move?). Me and my friends ended up on the dance floor and saw her, I froze I didn't approach her, I had AA even though I #closed her? What's wrong with me ffs? She ended up dancing with some guy in the end who was able to get super close and he started kissing her neck. By this time I tried to dance with her when he backed off for whatever reason, it was too late and we couldn't hear each other from the load music so I thought fuck it and ejected. And that was the end of the night.

Thinking of texting her today and arrange a date but I'm not sure how to go at it. Be direct, set the time and date and what we're doing? If she declined then its her loss?

My problem is I can escalate dancing, I can't dance and I'm scared to get closer since i don't know how to. Need some advice on how I can improve this.

Tl;Dr frustrating night, can't escalate when dancing, too scared and didn't know how to dance. #closed a super hot girl, but didn't follow up and led to naturals taking them away who have the balls to move closer. Need advice on how to dance closer to isolate. and need advice on how to arrange a date with the HB9 dancer via text.