When going for a #-close, how do you phrase it?

async2 · 2013-08-28T08:03:09+00:00

I'll hand her my phone with new contact with her name open and tell her to give me her number to meet up in the next days. Bonus: add her name as Name (Cutie from bar xy) or some random inside joke from your conversation. Practically never failed but you have to deal with more flakes as they'll give you the number all the time. Try to always kiss close instead and then take her number.

Masutatsu · 2013-08-28T15:57:42+00:00

Personal favourite if you just met them is -
"I have to go, but I'd love to talk more about < TOPIC YOU DISCUSSED >, and you should definitely give me your number."

2013-08-28T15:04:00+00:00

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GrayFoxHops · 2013-08-28T18:41:37+00:00

get her number and text first

Always. She will not text you if you give your number unless you made a stunning impression.

I usually tie the #-close into saying that we're going to do something like, "Let's do [insert fun thing here] sometime, throw your number in my phone."

2013-08-28T20:48:51+00:00

"We should kick it more often, whats your number?"

My go to phrase

duffduffxx · 2013-08-28T22:12:25+00:00

Don't ask for it, just tell her to give it to you

TheTrevLife · 2013-08-28T07:41:45+00:00

If I'm initiating, I take their's.

jdisko · 2013-08-28T07:43:01+00:00

"Hey give me your number, I'll call/text you on ________ and we'll go do _______."

Usually good to have a planned meetup within a few days to keep yourself relevant, especially when first meeting someone.

Kappio · 2013-08-28T18:28:00+00:00

I usually say. Give me your number and hand my phone to her. It has always worked.

bolxrex · 2013-08-28T16:50:31+00:00

"Hey, you're such an HB8. I totes gotta bounce now to make my false time constraint seem legit. Lemme #close you so we can bang next time."

2013-08-29T01:41:23+00:00

just ask for it straight up "yo, what's your number?" you can even add a little "we should do activity x" one time. doesn't really matter, just be confident and if she wants to give you her number, she'll give it to you. if she doesn't want to, whatver you say wont work. and maybe she might give you her no, her picking up is another story altogether

kingcal · 2013-08-29T03:47:18+00:00

I usually don't say anything. Most of the women I pick up are in bars. I just open my phone to the dialing screen and hand it to them and wait. I don't think it's ever not worked.

superchickin86 · 2013-08-30T08:50:23+00:00

I like to try and set up a day two right then, at the end of the interaction. If she's into you and says yes, it kind of forces the #-close AND puts it in her head that she's going to see you again.

"That's cool, you should tell me more about it over coffee sometime."

"Sure! Here, lemme give you my number..."

NaturesWanderer · 2013-10-04T18:21:53+00:00

"You should give me your number...."

Works for me, just about every single time.

presariopresario · 2013-08-28T16:28:01+00:00

Tell her "I like mobile phones. What's yours?". "... Let me have a look.". Then take her mobile phone, and dial your number on her phone. You'll get the number everytime.

Title	When going for a #-close, how do you phrase it?
Author	AndrewIsaac
Upvotes	13
Comments	20
Date	August 28, 2013 6:51 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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