We are not spiders so there's no need to fear rejection

triarii3 · 2013-09-11T14:22:16+00:00

If you read the recent scientific journals, most post-mating documentation of the female eating the male occurred in laboratory settings. The male had no where to run. Even the most notorious Black Widow rarely eat their mates their natural habitat.

Jesus how do I know this...this is why I never get laid

dejavudreams · 2013-09-11T16:04:46+00:00

In our culture if the woman accepts, we just eat her.

silverionmox · 2013-09-11T12:44:54+00:00

Even after the mating the male is often eaten. Extra proteins for the offspring.

2013-09-11T15:57:14+00:00

Okay but you can't deny for people running warm/social circle game that rejection does have social consequences

andrey_b · 2013-09-11T15:37:55+00:00

How do I know that won't happen if a human female rejects me? It could happen.

Takarov · 2013-09-11T14:43:26+00:00

But we can still fear spiders, right?

2013-09-11T16:08:01+00:00

Once i got into my rhythm with girls, i was never getting "rejected." Basically i used kino, body language and the "hair trick" to gauge if/ how ready a girl is to be kissed.

If you touch a girls back, and she likes it, she will either be neutral or lean into it, whereas if she pulls away she isnt feeling it. The best test is the hair test, where if you touch a girls hair and brush it behind her ear, and she lets you, shell kiss you. Ive tried this a lot and i never try to kiss a girl who pulls away, so its been 100% successful when girls allow it and look happy and brighteyed (or bedroom eyed.) This way you dont get rejected because you dont try to get a kiss if they are acting cold. Easy mode.

Body language is key, but of course i had to get through plenty of "what are you doing?'s" to get to where i know for sure when a girl wants the first kiss or not.

exophrine · 2013-09-11T19:11:31+00:00

Nice to know...but we're humans. Don't be silly...

ComeFromTheWater · 2013-09-11T18:56:55+00:00

Pure and simple truth. I remind so many of my friends about this point. Not the spider analogy, though. I just tell my friends with AA that the girl will not kill you or stab you if you get rejected. So what's there to be afraid of? Even if the girl has a boyfriend who went to go grab a drink or something, in all likelihood he's not going to punch you if he sees you chatting up his girl

All one has to do is grab his balls and talk to a girl. As long as you don't weigh 1000 lbs, don't smell like a gamer, and shave your neckbeard, you can get laid. You have to try, though. A chick isn't going to hop on your dick just because your awesome wingman tells her to. You have to seal the deal yourself, and all that takes is some confidence and a couple of stupid jokes.

gaash2 · 2013-09-11T19:01:22+00:00

Rejection does have consequences and we should fear it, at least a little, because otherwise we will never learn. Subconscious learning is very powerful and even works w/pick up

trmatthe · 2013-09-11T23:40:05+00:00

Alongside most of the comedy advice on this sub, that's also bullshit.

Title	We are not spiders so there's no need to fear rejection
Author	yamehameha
Upvotes	89
Comments	36
Date	September 11, 2013 12:18 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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