Need help/advice/inspiration with solo night club game

HappyJerk · 2013-09-19T20:17:41+00:00

How does one pull this off without looking like a loner creep?

Just act like your friends are on the side of the club and you went to buy a drink. If you can truly convince yourself that, then you're good. If a girl asks you why you're alone, there are lots of good excuses:

my friend were at a wack bar, and I had to leave and come somewhere fun
my friend had an argument with his GF and had to go home, but I wanted to stay out
I got way too high (or drank too many redbulls) and now I can't fall asleep

jarrai8000 · 2013-09-19T19:21:12+00:00

In my experience, I just start talking to anyone, and everyone. I usually go to bars alone, and if you go to the same bars every weekend, you'll at the very least get to know the bouncers and bartenders, and that will give some great boosts to the perception of social proof.

Also, being honest usually makes you look brave instead of creepy, so long as you own it.

As an example, I approached a 6-set (3 guys, 3 gals) and when they asked me "you're here by yourself?" I replied simply, "yeah, but I won't be leaving that way." Add a devilish grin, and I've hooked the group. Ended up getting one girls number from that group.

It might take some time, but with practice, going alone can be a lot of fun.

-all-that-glitters · 2013-09-20T13:38:11+00:00

All you have to do is not be the guy standing on the edge of the dancefloor staring at girls' asses like they're going out of fashion.

Approach the first set you see when you enter the club, bounce directly from them to the next, and so on. As long as you stick to this, no casual observer is going to see you as the guy who came alone...if anything, you're the guy who knows everyone.

Additionally, there'll be one or two sets of these sets that stick particularly well, but for whatever reason can't be pursued seduction-wise (presence of boyfriend, lesbian life partner, excessive facial hair etc). These sets will become your base to which you can bounce back when you need a breather.

If you're worried about being called out on the fact that you're alone in the early stages of your night, before you've gained some social proof, don't be. First of all, girls will often not even realise that you came alone, and just assume that your friends are elsewhere in the club. If they do realise, they will honestly rarely call you out on it. And if they do say something, never underestimate the power of responding honestly with confidence. Alternatively, if you prefer:

'I've lost my friends....can I meet yours?'

Wecanruletheworld · 2013-09-20T13:45:48+00:00

Do I approach people on the street and make friends? Then go into the club?

Talk to people ahead or behind in the queue. I always make some chat there and either we go in as a group and party together if they are cool or when we meet in the club later we can talk or high five each other. Once I managed to "team up" with 4 girls I talked to in the queue and met a friend of mine in there who thought we know each other for years lol.

If there is no queue then talk to the first person/group you see inside! Just greet them or wish them a great night. This will get the ball rolling and keep you in the mood.

Going solo requires balls and if you pull it off girls will love you. I go out a lot solo :)

changeh · 2013-09-20T16:51:07+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I still have AA, so would this be putting me into the deep end if I'm not going out with anyone but myself?

Title	Need help/advice/inspiration with solo night club game
Author	changeh
Upvotes	8
Comments	5
Date	September 19, 2013 5:43 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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