For example, two girls are dancing at a club in Romania. Direct opener: “Do you speak English? Awesome. I just have to say, you girls are so fucking hot that I don’t even know which one of you I like better.” Wink. They both laugh. They seem welcoming for me to dance with them.

Now here's the problem.

Great. I’m in. But now what? Whenever I get to this point, the attraction seems to fizzle and die as I vacillate between “goofy” and “cool” dancing--neither or which are particularly sexy, I imagine. Talking to them is not really an option, because the music is loud and these girls are keen to dance. Which also precludes taking them upstairs to the bar to talk.

I reckon this question could be answered by the general tenet of our philosophy: “Just try something, calibrate, and keep building social momentum.” But I’m wondering if there is something I’m missing about dancefloor/club game that might help me out when I am in this common situation.