7 WING-MAN BASICS: Basic principles all wingmen should know

TrentVanJames · 2013-11-08T18:31:22+00:00

He forgot something at the very start:

*choose your wingman wisely.

All my wingmen complement me in some way and you should choose wingmen that you wont be competing against.

One of my wingmen likes really skinny girls, I like them average. We go after different types of women.

One of my wingmen is a rough thug sort, im a refined fellow. We dont attract the same women.

One of my wingmen uses a "break down your door and take everything" approach. Im more aloof. We get good results because one of us always has the right approach.

LyingPervert · 2013-11-08T21:48:42+00:00

Also remember it isn't a competition. Wing men bring each other up together.

Ratatagoat · 2013-11-09T00:07:04+00:00

To build on #7, it's important to DHV your wingman, in his presence or not. Women like men who have strong friendships. Telling a good story about your buddy is not only high value but it's a nice Segway that would transition the discussion smoothly when you switch targets. Assuming he's done the same, then both of you are golden.

Winter1sCumming · 2013-11-08T16:51:12+00:00

Nice little reminder, thanks for posting.

joshecf · 2013-11-08T18:22:55+00:00

This is really cool. I can just never find a fellow wingman where I live!

bl1y · 2013-11-08T19:51:06+00:00

Thanks for taking the time to create a visual for approach positions, so much easier to look at than to read an explanation. But, I have a few criticisms of it anyways.

First with the graphic style itself. I'd suggest changing the guys to blue so you can immediately see what the setup is. At first I was like "Who's approaching that group of four girls?" You should also rotate them a bit to indicate the exact direction the guys are facing.

And that second visual thing brings me to the substance critique. Approaches from the side tend to be strong, and facing directly at each other tends to create a confrontational/adversarial mood. Standing at a 90 or 120 degree tends to be better. The way scenario 2 looks, Guy 1 and Girl 1 are having their own convo, and Guy 2 and Girl 2 are also paired up in their own conversation. On approach of course, you want to keep the group together (otherwise the red flags go off and they lock down in mother hen mode). But, this might all just be because the visual is still rather simple.

It'd be really great if you did each scenario as 3 slides. First slide is the initial girl's position. Second slide is the direction the guys approach from, before the girls have moved at all in response. Third would be the ideal arrangement to shift the group in to. Does that make sense? If not, let me know, I think this type of thing can be very useful.

lulz_lurker · 2013-11-09T18:13:28+00:00

Late post! I've gotten pretty good at approaching alone, and I see the value in having a wing, but what kind of openers do you use when your "flying in formation"? I have a tendency to inadvertantly draw all the attention, and just the idea of opening a group of girls with a wing seems complicated. What kind of openers work well in a team?

Title	7 WING-MAN BASICS: Basic principles all wingmen should know
Author	joshsway
Upvotes	196
Comments	17
Date	November 8, 2013 3:13 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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