Need help with texting.

strppngynglad · 2013-11-26T00:30:25+00:00

Sidebar. [keep it to making plans, never be saying more than she is] and don't send I miss you's ever.

HappyJerk · 2013-11-26T00:06:43+00:00

So I end up relying on text game.

no such thing

I do my best to take lead via text and only send value/Obnoxious I miss you/pictures/etc texts but I only get a few responses. Anyone have great surefire ways for a girl to get addicted to texting you?

stop texting and meet them in person

MGM420 · 2013-11-26T02:14:23+00:00

Girls love to sext

kingcal · 2013-11-26T02:31:07+00:00

Don't bother. Texting is the lowest form of communication. Make plans to meet when you're both in the campus area and let it be. If you spend all your time texting her, it just looks needy as fuck.

chillmonkey88 · 2013-11-26T02:32:49+00:00

Texting small things will ruin any chance. I'm going through this now. I just was flaked for to much. My game was good, but once she got the attention she wanted... why would she want to see or keep texting me after feeling satisfied? Or you? You need to limit yourself to what you say and how much you say. It's very hard to do, but you must push/pull in the texting department. You pushing a lot less than pulling. That is the key, no girl wants to see a guy that's a good texter (not a word yet I see thanks autocorrect) she wants to see a guy that can make her laugh and make her heart race in real life.

pounds_not_dollars · 2013-11-26T11:39:40+00:00

Stop texting. Find alternatives. Texting should be avoided because it doesn't allow escalation. The more texting you do, the more you limit interaction to being small talk and talking about generic things that friends talk about. Meeting up with them gives you access to your full arsenal of weapons, mainly behaviour and kino. Texting pushes them into the friend category because of the interaction without escalation. I'm not saying its forbidden but I am saying you are looking at the situation through the wrong lens if your goal is for them to get addicted to texting you.

joshsway · 2013-11-26T14:47:51+00:00

The secret to texting is: USE IT FOR LOGISTICS ONLY.

Jessie_James · 2013-11-26T15:17:17+00:00

Texting and phone calls are business tools, much like email. Treat them as such. Text to make plans, and then meet in person. Isn't that the whole point? Don't you want to go out? Maybe get laid?

You don't get anywhere with extensive texting. Ask her out, and if she accepts you're done. If she doesn't agree, then find someone else. Repeat until successful.

itsmevichet · 2013-11-26T17:04:01+00:00

So I end up relying on text game

That's the problem.

90 percent of building rapport is in person. You're trying to date girls, not type messages to them. Text is to facilitate dates - waiting by your phone to hear back from a person you like might be your idea of fun, but it's the last thing any attractive woman wants to be doing.

vaginamongerer · 2013-11-30T09:19:41+00:00

sounds dumb, but try tinder. i sucked ass at texting cause i would send boring texts. BUT i used tinder and gave no shits. i tried every opener and text method i could think of and found out what worked and what didn't work. basically I learned to keep it short, simple, and say shit that would always provoke a response. I used to do shit like

her: hey whats up?

me: nothing much, just about to head out to the city with some friends. pregaming now and then probably going to bar1. the city is so much fun! have you ever been there?

her:no i haven't

me: oh well you should definitely come here with me sometime! it's so much fun haha! what're you up to tonight?

her: no or shit response

looking back I cringe... i reeked of desperation and neediness. now, this is how I text

her:hey what's up?

me: pregaming a lil bit, bout to head out. you?

i always get responses from girls now and the conversation is usually 40/60 me:them. it's worked wonders for me.

Setsa · 2013-11-26T06:49:29+00:00

Texting should be only the highlights of a conversation. Keep things brief, positive, and playful. Leave the more grandiose displays for in person. A good heuristic is to match the length and content of her text. That is, do not give paragraphs in response to a sentence or small quip.

Title	Need help with texting.
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Date	November 25, 2013 11:37 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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