No problem talking to girls, but how do I be sexual in conversation?

VMikeL · 2013-11-25T06:36:26+00:00

Transition. People>Relationships>sex

If you see a window, move the conversation into a sexual direction as soon as it presents itself. Recently, I was asked about what I thought about women's underwear. It's about feeling comfortable with your sexuality, and having the confidence to talk about it, while knowing where your experiences and knowledge stands.

joshsway · 2013-11-25T17:44:17+00:00

I like to focus on non-verbal for sexual conversation. Kino, and eye contact.

sbspsk · 2013-11-25T05:17:17+00:00

Kino is key. It does a lot even if there is nothing sexual being talked about.

Once you're in the seduction stage, slow down your speech, hold eye contact longer, and kino a lot. In terms of what to say to get there, you could ask what's the craziest thing you've ever done?

readonlyuser · 2013-11-28T16:27:30+00:00

Long eye contact.

Slow down the rate of speech.

Get extremely close to her.

Kino.

Be playful, but not nervous gay friend playful.

Double entendres, humorous sexual misinterpretation, roleplay

Make sure you have isolated her!!!

2013-11-25T07:17:38+00:00

You actually don't need to be sexual in conversation as long as you escalate physically.

Nebula829 · 2013-11-25T08:00:08+00:00

I know it's over played but "That's what she said" works really well. It lets people know you are a sexual being without anyone feeling like it's being pointed at them.

You can even customize it to not sound like everyone else so if it's like a positive one (e.g. a girl at work* talking about a brochure I'm designing said), "I don't think it will fit there." So instead of saying, "That's what she said," I said, "Well maybe if we give the brochure a drink first, that always works for me." It made it unique and you can really say anything silly to make it dirty. If she says something like, 'That's really small," say, "Hey I can't help it, oh wait, never mind." Just be funny and don't be afraid to tease yourself too.

I work in a restaurant with a bunch of dirty, dirty girls. You may not be able to get away with saying shit like that at your job and if that's the case, it sucks to be you. Sorry. :-(

arxch126 · 2013-11-25T06:47:34+00:00

I personally find a reason to talk about her hair and then I touch it. Like if her hair reminds me of how Camren Diaz's hair looked in Vanilla Sky, I'll tell her that, and touch it and say " but it needs more volume here."

You can also say things about her freckles, facial gestures, eye brows, earrings, make up, scarf, ... whatever... find a good reason to touch her, and smile at her like you want to pin her against the wall. she'll feel it, and your conversation will inevitably be sexual

2013-11-25T09:24:52+00:00

i'm going to add: make sure the bitch is into it. i can't tell you how many times i've had a "practiced PUA" start dropping "hints" about fucking (or going back to his house, or going into his room). and i can't tell you how many times i've had to shut that shit down in a very cringeworthy way.

joshtenz · 2022-03-08T12:55:30+00:00

An example

Title	No problem talking to girls, but how do I be sexual in conversation?
Author	snsdfour3v3r
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Comments	20
Date	November 25, 2013 4:53 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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