It is generally accepted in the seddit community that we have to stick out, in a good way. (I.E., we have to be be intelligent, have good jobs, be leaders, and just be well-rounded individuals.) is there anything wrong with a 20 year old dressing up everywhere he goes. I typically like to wear dress shoes, dress shirts and khakis and dress pants everywhere I go. That doesn't cross the line of trying to hard, does it?