Does tinder work ?

very1 · 2014-05-06T12:50:50+00:00

For the amount of time it takes versus the results you get, it's terrible. Go outside. Humans didn't spend the last 10,000 years seducing each other with "u dtf gurl??"

SPIDERMAAAN · 2014-05-06T09:08:50+00:00

I have been using Tinder for a week and so far have a rough 10% success rate for hook ups. As long as you are straight forward about your intention you will find good matches.

DirtyProjector · 2014-05-06T17:54:06+00:00

Tinder is not worth it. People can tell you that it's your attractiveness, but that's a small part of it. I've talked to a number of women who have used Tinder, and they say that it changes you and how you approach human interaction. Almost every one of them said that they would invariably go on Tinder to find a guy who would take them out to a nice dinner. They would talk to a guy who they were interested in, but because there were so many other dudes on there, they would move on without much thought, even if they were interested. Also, many had preconceived notions about meeting someone on there, and also what they wanted. So even if there was a quality guy they matched with, invariably they would write it off. I think most people don't want to meet people on an app like Tinder.

The more I use online dating, the more I realize that it's really difficult to meet someone unless you're extremely lucky. There's so many variables against you, and unless you are using something like E-Harmony, it's just not a great resource for meeting a great match. A lot of the behaviors on there just make no sense. I'll get messages from girls saying "You sound amazing" or "You're really handsome" and then they'll never respond again. It just doesn't add up to how things operate in reality.

rusty84 · 2014-05-06T13:12:56+00:00

IMO, no. It's too much work, and you're wasting your time most of the times.

DafarheezyRises · 2014-05-06T13:28:18+00:00

Wait hold on OP, you said you are from Mumbai? Do people use Tinder there?

Man I wish i could use my Tinder to match with girls there.

My advice:

DO NOT take any bathroom/mirror selfies.

Pick pics that clearly show your face, make you look GOOD (a good face is the most important thing for tinder), pics with friends in a social setting, pics with a cool/adventurous background. No closet/mirror/bathroom selfies!

phe_nom · 2014-05-06T15:14:32+00:00

I am seeing a girl from tinder currently so it definitely does work. Try to spend as little time as possible with it though. Just like every girl and sort it out later. Think of it like you're running a trawler, sometimes you net a manatee, sometimes you net the little mermaid. Let the manatee alone, then inspect the mermaid for the proper lady parts.

strange_hobbies · 2014-05-06T15:38:54+00:00

I've met a few girls over time, but if you aren't 8/10 in looks or better, you're wasting your time and will have about a 0.1% response rate

mrshampoo · 2014-05-09T05:33:51+00:00

It doesn't fucking work. Been on 5-6 tinder dates, none in f-close.

jimmyayo · 2014-05-06T11:25:33+00:00

Why don't you try it out and see if it workS or not. Cmon you're a big boy, figure it out.

Zack_Fair_ · 2014-05-06T10:12:44+00:00

pretty crap imo, but can definitely work. I just prefer the normal way by miles.

Title	Does tinder work ?
Author	mumbaindian
Upvotes	0
Comments	15
Date	May 6, 2014 9:03 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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