I'd like to share from personal experience some common "Alpha" misconceptions that seem to be advised from PUAs and on here that I believe to be incorrect. I've based it on my own trial and error and I would like to share my take on these "Alpha" traits;

  1. "Alpha does what he wants when he wants" - Whilst largely true, and accurate but you wouldn't be breaking into your local bank would you? You wouldn't just steal a handbag because you need some extra cash pronto. This is extreme but still, like everything in moderation. Yes an Alpha is on his own path, but it isn't a destructive one.

  2. "Alpha's look down on betas" - Thats not true. An alpha actually wants to HELP betas, however chooses not to those who dont seek it. If a stubborn, naive, narrowminded person wishes not to admit they have faults or whatever yet complain about no success, they must learn their own way.

  3. "Alpha stands his ground" - I heard this on the phone from a friend whos recently discovered TRP. He had a slagging match with some random woman because he was berating women on the phone a friend on the bus. She was obviously upset with his words and just looked at him and he had a full on arguement with this random old woman. Alphas don't even argue, unless necessary. Alphas will stand their ground in the sense of doing what they want on their terms and not jumping through hoops. Not argueing with everyone in the world.

  4. "Alphas know everything" - You will never know anything, until on your deathbed. Your last days, life will give you its lessons. However an alpha DOES believe in himself, and has a better understanding of the world thanks to TRP and so on. But that doesn't mean he knows how to build a rocket ship.

  5. "I'm alpha i'll let women come to me" - Good luck with that. There's more of a chance a goat will appear and do a dance then women approach you. Thats rule 101 you got to do the approaching. Thats what an alpha is all about.

  6. All talk no results - I see new found red pillers talk about how they did this, did that. A true alpha knows he can get pussy. Stop being surprised about it, a fault I used to make and start to just help your brothers instead.

  7. "Alphas are arrogant" - Wrong. A true alpha is extremely self assured. He believes in himself. Pretending to believe in yourself is arrogance. Arrogance is petty, and just lame. People will see through it.

The most important thing I'd like to share, a true alpha accepts the state of society, especially women. He adapts to it to a degree in order to get what he wants. He knows women are a mess currently but it wont stop him getting laid, making money, getting into shape.

Arguements, betas, all that other bullshit, he doesn't care. Thats the stage I'm at. Its very mellow. I highly enjoy it.