Easiest way to hook up in a club with minimal/no conversing

Wandering_Saint · 2014-11-09T16:01:58+00:00

Unfortunately, man, I don't think that's possible. If it was just as easy as glancing at a girl, getting her to notice you, getting close to her, and then taking her to your place, this subreddit would not be as gigantic as it is. Everyone would be getting laid, man.

Game is hard, man. Game is probably the most frustrating social shit I've had to deal with in years. It takes a lot of time and practice, but it's an art form. It's a muscle to be stretched. It is a dance that can be improved, perfected, and mastered. But above all, game is necessary.

If the genders were reversed, and you were a girl trying to hook up, it'd be a completely different story. But then again, your sexual priorities would be far, far different. You see, guys can simply become aroused, as in full blown boner and all, just from seeing a naked woman. Women, on the other hand, need to be stimulated socially, intellectually, and emotionally. Unless your social value is a goddamn ocean compared to her pond, to the point where she's heard your name from strangers before you walk into the door, there's next to zero chance that you can pick her up without at least SOME game.

Some lucky sedditors can get a girl to k-close with them after only a few minutes of game. I have no idea how they do it, but you can bet they've been working on exercising that gaming muscle for months to be suave as a motherfucker.

Cold approaching isn't a bad thing, man. Cold approaching shows confidence, and most girls and women find confidence sexy. If you're willing to come up to her and her group of friends, open a conversation, breaking all the social norms of what guys tend to do, then you've not only shown that your bold (i.e. confident) but you also show that you're quite a bit different from most of the guys who'll just puss out as soon as they see more than one girl on the dance floor/bar/table, ect.

As much as we would all like it if girls gave indications before we even met them that they were down to hook up, it simply isn't going to happen. The brain is the most important, and largest sex organ for a woman. Stimulate that in the right ways, and if her priorities align with yours, a hookup is possible.

I don't mean to dash your dreams, but this is simply the truth. There is no technique for hooking up with a girl without game. Not unless you've fucked before. So, build that self confidence, practice that inner and outer game, and remember that you aren't going after her; she's the one that's going to go after YOU.

Good luck, my friend. You're taking your first steps into a much larger world, and will come out much better as a whole for it.

lilhurt38 · 2014-11-10T07:46:55+00:00

It's usually random when that happens. I've had times where I've made out with a girl within five minutes of meeting her. She gave me her number and told me to meet her at her apartment. That was followed up by her telling me that she loves giving head. I actually showed up and she was with some other guy, which was a bit awkward and I left. I've also had a girl try to get me to go into a bathroom stall with her at a club after meeting me a minute earlier. It's rare and it just kinda happens. I'm probably a little above average when it comes to looks. I'm not a Brad Pitt. Go out, dance a lot, and have a good time. The time that I made out with a girl within five minutes of meeting her, I was out by myself and just dancing my ass off on the dance floor. I didn't care what I looked like, I was just there to have fun. The girl came up to me, started to dance, I took her hand and spun her. Taking a girl by the hands is the easiest way to lead her when dancing. She complimented me on my dancing. I led the dancing, pulled her in closer, and k closed her. I don't know, it was just easy to escalate from dancing to making out. The spin was a compliance test and as soon as she gave me her hand, I knew that I could escalate and k close. Would that work all the time? Probably not. I like to dance if there's good music. I've been dancing on the dancefloor, pointed at a girl, given her the come here motion, and had her laugh at me. I kept dancing my ass off and didn't let that phase me. Suddenly, she ran up to me and started grinding on me.

The other time at the club was random. I was in the bathroom which was kinda a shared mens/womens bathroom. I'm in line to wash my hands when a girl tries to jump on me. She's probably an HB8 and I'm assuming she was drunk. I don't know what the fuck was going on at first. I quickly figured out what she was trying to do. She wanted me to carry her. When I realized it I said, "Put your fuckin' leg up. I got you." She puts one leg up, I pick her up from under her legs and carry her around for a few seconds before I let her down. Next thing I know, she's trying to pull me into a bathroom stall with her. I decided not to go in with her and I walked away. I don't know, it was too easy and I didn't want it. I also didn't have a condom and I figured that I'd be risking catching something.

I guess the main takeaways were have a good time and lead the interaction. Taking her hand and spinning her is a good compliance test to see if she's open to you escalating things with her. It's a good way to lead into dancing with her also. The club thing? I don't have any idea. I guess the only thing was that I led the interaction once I figured out what she was trying to do. Plus, girls love being picked up.

DaygameCoach · 2014-11-09T16:16:31+00:00

Oh, you want to ride a bicycle without wheels or a handlebar! Why are you calling cold approaching shit? You are handicapping yourself by framing things in a negative way in your head.

You are STILL cold approaching....since you don't know the girl, even if you don't say a word. Opening lines are actually a way to do it--you are looking at it wrong. How guys do it, is a combination of banter lines, pauses, and physical moves. then isolate and talk in each others ears.

Cuisine, daygamer.net

2014-11-09T19:53:51+00:00

Spot drunk girl dancing, move up behind her and grind, when she turns around put a hand behind her head and pull in for a kiss. Break it off, tilt head towards door, grab her by the hand and lead her out. Get in cab and make out/fingerbang. Back to your place for the close.

Does not work if you're unattractive or she's not down. Exude the confidence though and she'll follow if receptive without saying a word.

2014-11-09T21:58:46+00:00

I once was on the sidelines of a dance floor and noticed this fairly attractive girl. We kept glancing at eachother and every time we did I flashed a smile at her. After a couple more times I nodded at her in a way like I was saying "come here" without saying anything at all. Met up off the dance floor. Chatted for a bit. And then I asked if she wanted to come back to my place to watch a movie. Score. Just be confident. And smile I suppose.

ThePretendDoctor · 2014-11-09T15:58:15+00:00

Be good looking.

Srs.

wirelezz · 2014-11-09T15:55:35+00:00

Try being Brad Pitt, that'd work

thatCaticorn · 2022-08-06T18:53:16+00:00

You people are f****** idiots. If there wasn't so much social restriction on women and so much misogyny, they put out a lot more. Birth control should be ubiquitously available, and sluts should be venerated instead of mothers.

Title	Easiest way to hook up in a club with minimal/no conversing
Author	burn_after__reading
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Comments	14
Date	November 9, 2014 2:06 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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