Race?

DaygameCoach · 2014-11-26T04:01:07+00:00

I've seen men of all races do well or poorly. There are a lot of variables including looks, clothes, body language, approach, attraction game, comfort, rapport skills, etc. I wouldn't worry about the race aspect since you can't change it and work on improving your game.

GreySafet · 2014-11-26T14:34:03+00:00

Much as people don't want to admit it, race still continues to dominate a lot of social interaction. Asians (East and South) have to contend with persistent and powerful prejudice that they are less sexual virile than other men. Blacks have a prejudice in their favor about sexual prowess, but are up against massive amounts of ingrained and systemic covert racism. My conclusion is that "it is a big factor" -- even if women don't want to admit it -- but, like everything else, you can overcome it, just as you can overcome being short, bald, unattractive, etc.

8sweettooth8 · 2014-11-26T15:05:58+00:00

For the approach and initial stages of attraction and seduction, yes it is a big factor. More than most people care to admit.

Most people will feel more comfortable with those of the same "kind".

Each minority race/background has its own stereotype. NOTE: I do not necessarily believe the following traits to be true. This is simply information gathered through my reading and personal knowledge. For example: black men are aggresive, latinos are unfaithful, asian and middle eastern men are misogynistic, etc.

The key is to behave in a way that counters those stereotypes and you will quickly be a man of high value to her. A man that does not have a specific set of stereotypes attached to him will not attain the same high value using the same behavior as a man that does. So for example, if you take an asian or white man that behaves in a way that shows faithfulness, he will not attain high value using the SAME behavior as quickly as a latino man.

Unfortunately, it is something that you SHOULD take into consideration. However, it can be handled.

IpickupGrandmothers · 2014-11-26T03:54:09+00:00

Is race a big factor for most women when guys approach you?

Race is pretty much irrelevant in the long run.

Or is it more about the conversation and where it goes from there?

Yeah, you could argue that.

Bossbailey · 2014-11-26T04:07:51+00:00

I guess I'm curious if women already have a preconceived notion and won't give other guys a chance based on the initial approach because of race

DaygameCoach · 2014-11-27T02:14:16+00:00

Now that I think of it, there are negative stereotypes for white men too. One example is that if you game Asian American girls...they often screen you for an Asian fetish.

Title	Race?
Author	Bossbailey
Upvotes	4
Comments	23
Date	November 26, 2014 3:51 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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