Can anyone explain WHY I am getting nervous?

SinSlayer · 2014-12-19T01:27:23+00:00

Emotions and logic are typically mutually exclusive. You're nervous because you like her and dont want to screw it up and your logical brain knows that's a very real possibility. It's like applying for a job you're over qualified for and literally the only applicant. You'd still get nervous for the interview.

Rx_Love · 2014-12-19T22:31:45+00:00

Because you're human and probably young. Shut up you'll be fine. Or you'll make an ass of yourself. Either way you'll be better for it

M4ncubus · 2014-12-19T13:19:55+00:00

You're getting nervous because there's no abundance.

Try to "date" or meet multiple women in a period of time and the pit in your stomach will disappear gradually.

assembledcube · 2014-12-19T11:26:12+00:00

If she likes you and you fuck up she will just accept it. You can't make any mistakes.

News_Bot · 2014-12-19T11:42:54+00:00

A tip is to interpret nervousness as excitement. The physical response is not much different, so how you feel about them can affect the outcome.

d8_thc · 2014-12-19T13:03:57+00:00

If you really want to know, the fear circuit for rejection is there because if this was the year 100,000 BC and you fucked it up with a potential mate you were done for, if you were rejected by a main girl you could be rejected by all the girls, socially ostracized, or even got into a fight with an 'alpha male' with the girl your pursuing.

Of course, this all doesn't matter in 2014. But that's why it's scary.

Title	Can anyone explain WHY I am getting nervous?
Author	roguerhino99
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	December 19, 2014 1:23 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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