Disclaimer: I'm gonna complain about shit in this post.

Whenever I'm in the club, I feel like I'm inconveniencing the girl by approaching her. Tonight I was at a club with a few friends, and I didn't even approach once. Every time I saw a girl dancing that I liked, I though, 'why bother her, I'm only going to get rejected anyway'. I feel like it's impossible for me to actually approach a girl and have her like me.

Throughout the night, there were some slight indications that some girls wanted to dance with my group, in that they stayed close, did accidental touching etc. It all sounds good, but when those opportunities happened I didn't do anything because I though 'nah they're definitely only after my friends, who are more attractive than me'. I figured if I did do something then I'd get humiliated and that would hurt my already crumbling inner game more.

I really would appreciate any advice. I mean this is obviously a very self-defeating thought pattern and I'd like to overcome it and get a bit happier. To be honest I feel like I'll just die alone since there isn't anyone who could be attracted to me. Bit of a bummer, so sorry about that, but I'm still a little drunk. Thanks.