This may sound like a silly question, but is there a way that a man can sit which makes him appear sexy? Currently, when I'm sitting down somewhere I typically lean back in the chair and have my legs spread. I also try to keep my head up and avoid fast moving or jittery behavior. I sit like this because I see some guys sitting the opposite way with their legs close together, shaking their legs, shoulders hunched inward etc. And i know that what they're doing probably doesn't make women see them as confident. Is there any way for a man to express a confident sexual vibe by just sitting in a room?