My problem: I can't flirt. How do I do it?

Rx_Love · 2015-03-23T20:40:51+00:00

So wait, are you not getting laid/girlfriend/dates/whateveryourlookingfor? Your description up there makes it sound like everything is fine and you just want to know how to flirt as like, a hobby.

If you aren't having success and want to know about flirting, then that's something you will have to learn for yourself. No one can teach you how to be witty, charming or engaging. Just put yourself out there as visibly as you can, and try to make em smile in the process.

penguin_says_slide · 2015-03-23T18:47:20+00:00

Huh?

Wait, so you can :

Approach with no problem
Make convo with no problem
Escalate physically with no problem

Mate, if you're making out with them, I'm pretty sure they got the hint. No flirting required.

DaygameCoach · 2015-03-23T19:15:27+00:00

Read Superfliert and Superdate by Tracey Cox.

jmatre · 2015-03-23T19:34:45+00:00

If they laughing at what you have to say, you are flirting. Maybe you assumed wrong.

Throwaway_d · 2015-03-24T09:12:32+00:00

Other people in this thread are wrong when they say you're flirting just by making her laugh.

Flirting is a power play. It involves sexual sub-communication. If you tease or say something sexual to a girl and she goes along with it, she is being submissive to you. This is often funny because you have to do it by saying things that don't really make sense.

Look up David DeAngelo's 'cocky funny humour'. That is everything you need to know about flirting.

Colonelfudgenustard · 2015-03-23T18:43:52+00:00

I think you're supposed to seal the deal by saying something like, "My knob ain't gonna gob itself."

Title	My problem: I can't flirt. How do I do it?
Author	nor_iqhwan
Upvotes	5
Comments	17
Date	March 23, 2015 6:41 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/301gvr/my_problem_i_cant_flirt_how_do_i_do_it/
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