Tips to lay off overtexting

gramsespektrum · 2015-05-14T14:05:34+00:00

Have other stuff to do. Live an interesting life and text her when you're bored.

From her point of view: If you text her all the time, it will seem like you don't have a life. It kills attraction.

From your point of view: Texting girls shouldn't be your top priority. Do your own thing and talk to her sometimes.

itsmevichet · 2015-05-14T16:37:44+00:00

Put down the phone.
Find something to fill all the hours that you would otherwise spend texting because you had nothing better to do.
Get awesome at that thing.
Beers for all involved.

southpole4 · 2015-05-14T16:24:40+00:00

Personally, I only text to set up the logistics of the next date and then I stop. I do this knowing full well the girl wouldn't mind talking all day up to the date, but from my experience I know it's an attraction killer.

My rule is to set up a date within 5 messages, unless I feel like I could escalate and be more direct through text (usually when I get her number in a less direct way). When you've set up a date, simply end the conversation and tell her you'll text her before the date.

carsforBOB · 2015-05-14T20:21:00+00:00

You've already put the ball on the field. Let her throw it to you a few times. Also, don't try to keep a text conversation going past its high point. Let it end.

karimpii · 2015-05-15T00:59:45+00:00

I always message someone else, usually a friend who I know will answer back. That way my thumbs keep moving

CrapStudent1 · 2015-05-14T19:18:28+00:00

I'm actually in a similar situation where the girl texts a lot. It's difficult to set things up since we both work and have a distance between us.

Since the texting is somewhat inevitable, try and show off your life at the same time. Take pictures and selfies of interesting things you're doing, it helps show some value and will keep things at least a little more interesting.

lofiharvest · 2015-05-14T22:28:09+00:00

Simple. Stop.

doglitbug · 2015-05-15T04:39:54+00:00

Maybe match the length and frequency/timing of her messages

new_cummer · 2015-05-15T04:52:39+00:00

You should get into the habit of meeting people in person and hang out. You'll forget all about texting in no point. Could be over a drink, bite, ice cream, mario-kart or just a casual stroll around the park.

Llleblanc1986 · 2015-05-14T20:09:42+00:00

Here's a tip just stop over texting

Title	Tips to lay off overtexting
Author	alleriaq
Upvotes	17
Comments	14
Date	May 14, 2015 1:46 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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