I need help getting girl's numbers.

cmiovino · 2015-07-07T20:34:45+00:00

Great if you approached one. No number, no problem. Onto the next.

Just as an example, it's normal for me to approach 2-3 women a day at lunch hour. Maybe 1-2 numbers a week, and half of those are fake or flake. It's a numbers game.... in more ways than one.

Even another example.. probably did 20 approaches in a bar two weeks ago, only got one solid number out of it. I call that a win and had fun doing it. Don't rate yourself with a batting average.

2015-07-07T20:32:10+00:00

This is actually a pretty general question. You're asking how do I be good with women. How do I get game.

Go out today or tomorrow and approach 3 girls. Make eye contact without flinching and tell them you thought they looked cute or whatever form of "attractive" comes to mind, and that you wanted to talk. If you last more than 30 seconds doing this (probably won't no pressure), look them in the eye and say you wanna go out with her sometime. It's ok to be uncomfortable doing this. It's ok to be nervous, shake a little. Just stay in there and show your intent. This isn't about the end result right now, it's about just trying it.

AFTER you go through that little thing, then come back and read some sidebar stuff and top all time posts here.

pipkk · 2015-07-08T01:28:00+00:00

Look to the right of your screen. Read this, come back later. We are not your dick wetting crew.

napathy · 2015-07-07T19:25:02+00:00

There is a ton of useful knowledge in the sidebar, I would recommend reading through it first

bjlmag · 2015-07-07T22:39:09+00:00

Be confident and assume attraction. Rather than saying, "hey can I get your number" as if it's a big deal (which it isnt), just take out your phone, look her in the eye, and tell her to put her number in. Use some tact, obviously, but it really isn't as big of a deal as people think.

Breaking_Ad · 2015-07-07T22:47:50+00:00

It has to be step by step. First it has to be a very informal link like Facebook or something like that. Once you have some days chatting, you can like very casually ask her to jump to Whatsapp just for chatting convenience. That's a good way to get her number without directly asking for it.

chicanomang · 2015-07-08T02:42:51+00:00

Somethings that's helped me is instead of saying "can I have your number?" I use, "give me your number." This shows more confidence and you even feel more confident saying it.

IpickupGrandmothers · 2015-07-08T04:43:02+00:00

Create an actual connection with the woman, and she'll be more inclined to give you her number. If you have real rapport with her, then she views you as an actual person with thoughts and feelings, rather than some faceless mook.

DaygameCoach · 2015-07-08T14:15:49+00:00

Yes.

Read, understand, and apply all the sidebar help. The # isn't the goal...the relationship/connection (whatever that is) with the girl is.

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Title	I need help getting girl's numbers.
Author	youngsircharles
Upvotes	9
Comments	13
Date	July 7, 2015 7:14 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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