What do you guys do to be heard in loud clubs?

ThatSpecialPlace · 2015-09-14T23:11:33+00:00

I do club game a lot, honestly it's like 80% of my game. The other 20% also revolves around night game. So I feel like I have some inshight here.

Basically you're trying to get the girl either on the floor to dance with you or off the floor so you can isolate. So if you meet a girl at the bar and can generate a spark within 3-5 minutes you must ask her to dance so you can escalate quickly. The opposite is also true, if you and a girl catch eyes on the dance floor you should dance with her for a few songs and then ask her to get a drink or go somewhere a bit more quiet to chill because you need a break from dancing.

Club game also allows you to get extra close, so in your case lean in real close and tell her to come with you to another part of the club so you guys can talk.

recyclablebantha · 2015-09-14T23:57:32+00:00

I want to know tips that actually work.

Just be careful. There are no magic tricks here. Any suggestions we give you here will not fly well depending on your confidence level.

And something else to be aware of, do you actually like the activities of clubs? Dancing? Listening to music? Or do you only go there because "hot girls" go there? If you're only going there for the girls, don't like the actual activities there, AND are new to this, then you might consider finding venues that feature activities you do like.

I always have a hard time making myself heard in loud environments.

That's because, to be honest, club "game" is not really about being "heard." Sure, guys like RSD Tyler can pull off a move like pulling random girls in close to talk to them as an opener. But if you're a newb, that's only going to come off as creepy if you don't have the confidence to pull it off.

No, in clubs, it's not really about talking. Look around...... people are there to dance or listen to loud music. Both of which don't go quite so well with holding a normal conversation without yelling into someone's ear. You may put yourself at a deficit if you try to open verbally. Opening NON-verbally will be easier.

Use eye contact. You can communicate quite well with facial expressions and eye contact alone. Scan the room and hold eye contact with people. Smile. If you're looking at a girl and she meets eye contact, pay attention to how she looks away. You can get a read on how things would go initially with her.
Dance. Have a good time. Join the fun, don't be the guy standing off to the side looking at people. While you're dancing, use eye contact. Play. Have fun and let yourself get goofy if you feel the inclination.

Mi5ery · 2015-09-15T13:17:45+00:00

Whisper in her ear.

_kang18 · 2015-09-15T14:10:53+00:00

Advising directly to your question on how to make your voice clearer and louder, I suggest you look into a program called "Voicing It" by Nancy Daniels.

Alongside the techniques taught in the program, training your neck muscles will aid and reduce the stress put onto your voice-box allowing it to be more relaxed and thus have a deeper resonance to it. Other than that, drink plenty of water, you should know why.

Nothing else is going to help "clear your voice". It's a muscle that needs to be trained just like those who wish to sing. Without that training, all you can do as the people above my have stated is use situations to your advantage where you don't need to speak louder.

4juice · 2015-09-15T18:13:16+00:00

That piece of skin/flesh over the ear hole? Press it lightly when talking to the person and speak normally. She will hear you clearly no matter how loud the club is.

SirByron · 2015-09-15T18:43:20+00:00

Don't use your voice at all. Use facial and hand gestures + body language to communicate exclusively. See Gambler's video on this - YT.

Title	What do you guys do to be heard in loud clubs?
Author	Lanaru
Upvotes	13
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Date	September 14, 2015 10:51 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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