I just moved to a college town. I'm 30. Will the typical college girl be put off by my age?

plethoraofdesiderata · 2015-10-14T21:05:26+00:00

It all depends on you, but generally speaking age is not a problem. I'm a 45 year old white guy, and I don't have any problem finding plenty of college women to date and/or sleep with. I love the diversity of the dating pool in my university town. Recently I've been dating/sleeping with 4 college women -- a 20 year old Middle Easterner, a 25 year old Chinese, a 30 year old white American, and a 35 year old Thai. I also recently had a fling with a hot 45 year old Taiwanese mother after her college-student daughter -- a friend of mine -- hooked us up.

Over the past few years I've slept with over a dozen college women from almost as many countries. About two-thirds were undergrads and the rest grad students. I've also had relationships with 2 very hot professors in their 30s (one a Korean, one a German). Most of those relationships were semi-long term or long term (a few months to a few years).

I'm very up front and honest with everyone I date about being non-monogamous and having other relationships. Everyone either goes along with that and enjoys me and the situation, or they decide they can't accept it and either end things or don't sleep with me in the first place. If you're interested in dating multiple women at the same time, it really helps things to go smoothly if you just tell them up front -- preferably within the first 5 minutes of your first date. Just tell them straight up that you're non-monogamous or polyamorous. Then they can decide if they want to date/sleep with you or not.

I've found that some younger women love older guys, some don't, and some are willing to try if they're interested in you. If they like you, then date them or sleep with them if you want. If they don't like you for any reason, then don't take it personally at all. Instead, just let them go or friendzone them.

As a side note, friendzoned girls actually make great friends. I love going out for drinks with my friendzoned girls since I love talking to them about life, other girls, their problems, etc. It's a much-welcomed diversion from dating, sometimes. Plus, you get a lot of social proof when you're seen with them. And they sometimes even introduce you to their hot friends and/or mothers....

So in other words, your age is not a problem. You can just as easily date younger women as women your own age. Women love men. So just be the best man you can be, have some initiative and some game, don't take any rejection personally, and have fun!

Oh, and rock their world when you sleep with them.

2015-10-14T18:45:08+00:00

not problem as long as you look good

calebmke · 2015-10-14T20:43:04+00:00

32 M here, moderately attractive. I can pull 18-22 yo with only a little less success than those closer in age.

Just remember, you're not in college and they're not dating you thinking you're going to act that way. They'll most likely expect you to be more mature and put together than boys their age, so just be yourself.

2015-10-14T18:00:52+00:00

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ThrowawayPUA · 2015-10-14T20:19:12+00:00

There are plenty of grad students your age taking classes alongside college girls who are fresh out of high school. It is not a big deal.

Fudgeworth · 2015-10-15T00:51:17+00:00

Think about it in terms of why you're better than a college aged man:

You have a job and steady paycheck
You have your own place
You know about more events in your area than just a keg party
You have a car (some college students don't)
You have 10 more years of stories to tell
You've had more relationships and know how to treat a woman
You have life experiences rather than just textbook knowledge

WayOfTheGentleman · 2015-10-15T06:18:32+00:00

I'm 35 and I'm way more attractive to 21 year olds than I ever was when I was in my 20s.

Not every young girl will like you, but instead of worrying you're too old, start realising the value you have to offer these girls in comparison to guys of her own age.

Guys of her own age are drunk, insecure, either too loud (fake confidence) or too shy (no confidence), they have no money, no life skills, no knowledge of the world and no experience. They are often poor at sex too '3 pumps and a squirt'.

Most of these girls love an older guy who is totally solid and comfortable in his own skin. Who's been around and experienced life. Who they feel safe and protected with. Who they can learn about life from. Who can fuck them properly. Who has a place that is clean and tidy and not a disgusting student cesspit. Who can take her places and show her things that the average fratboy can't.

These are all things of massive value to a young girl.

If you can't fix it, feature it.

spock3927 · 2015-10-14T18:01:47+00:00

Dating range for 30 is 22-46....so should be good....

ThrowawayPUA · 2015-10-14T17:56:15+00:00

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DaygameCoach · 2015-10-14T20:58:01+00:00

If you think your age is a problem, it IS. that's called a self-limiting belief. You're fine at 30, depending on the woman. Confidence will go a long way here. And learn how to deal with shit tests.

Title	I just moved to a college town. I'm 30. Will the typical college girl be put off by my age?
Author	PumpkinFeet
Upvotes	19
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Date	October 14, 2015 5:51 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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