My roommate is having a dress up lingerie party. I will be one of a few guys attending.

Madicami · 2015-12-17T22:08:30+00:00

First of all, you lucky bastard.

Second, if your roommate Is trying to hook you up, there has already been talk about you. You need to find out what she's already told the other girls about you. You need to find out what things they liked and didn't and build off the good, avoid the bad.

Third, control yourself and act normal. Don't be all shocked and nervous, act like this Shit happens all the time and you're perfectly comfortable around multiple girls in lingerie. Also do your best to never ever sneak a peek. Multiple girls around, someone will notice. However, that might make one jealous that you're checking out another girl and not her, it's a risky game.

Fourth, use your roommate to your best advantage. Talk about funny stories with her, involve her in conversations. These girls may be putting themselves out past their normal comfort level already by being around you in lingerie when you first meet, which means their guards will be elevated. Use your roommate to reassure them your a good guy and lower their defenses.

Finally, have fun! Don't go in with expectations, just enjoy the night. Sounds like it will be a night to remember and reminisce on when you're older. Don't ruin that future memory by not meeting your own expectations. Plus if you do get lucky then you exceeded your lack of expectations, bonus points.

Edit: just realized only one of them is your roommate. And a word...dam autocorrect

enkae7317 · 2015-12-18T01:42:36+00:00

Dude!! DO NOT GAME THEM!!! What you are in is a social circle. If you try to run game routines etc, you WILL FUCK UP AND ALIENATE THE GIRLS. Just relax and have a good time!!!

NotReallyAJew · 2015-12-17T22:29:13+00:00

Pics or it didn't happen.

Please...pics.

And fuck you if it's true.

kb23 · 2015-12-17T19:44:31+00:00

Dress as peter pan. Cuz you know he has a fairy

rpcharles · 2015-12-18T01:53:10+00:00

Don't drink too much. Your game gets better to a point, and then plummets very quickly when drinking. I'm sure you know your limits, but it's too easy to get pressured into playing too many rounds of beer pong when there are 20 hot girls trying to be your teammate lol.

Honestly as long as you're there, dressed in a good costume, not too fucked up, and having a good time, you're going to get laid. Not much to it in a situation like that. That being said, be careful when hooking up with your roommates friends. Make sure they know it's strictly sex (unless you want more). If there is a fallout between you and her friend it could lead to bigger consequences.

DCharlieW · 2015-12-17T23:45:16+00:00

Whip out your dick and do a helicopter with it. Bitches love that shit.

/s

MacroCode · 2015-12-17T23:24:07+00:00

Pretend they're wearing winter coats. Ogling them all is not gonna get you anything

jj130 · 2015-12-18T07:02:07+00:00

It will really all come down to isolating one of them. The best method I've found is just have a few bottles in your room and offer one of the girls a shot from your private stash. After that it's all kino

philosarapter · 2015-12-17T20:41:08+00:00

Personally, I'd pick the hottest girl in the room and start talking to her first. If she likes you, great. If she doesn't seem interested, then leave her alone for the rest of the night and flirt with the other girls. Eventually the first girl you were talking to will be upset that you lost interest in her and she'll be trying to talk you up by the end of the night.

When the odds are in your favor its going to be pretty easy, just be confident, funny and friendly.

2015-12-18T02:53:58+00:00

Don't let us down - please follow up. and listen to /user/Madicami's advise

ilovedasimps · 2015-12-18T03:00:24+00:00

Your roommate is on your side and it's a party. Don't say anything overly stupid/weird and you'll be fine.

2015-12-18T09:50:18+00:00

Don't focus on lines or routines that anyone else tells you.

The best "lines" are situational. Use the world around you to generate conversation.

The best conversations with girls are where you draw them into your reality and either comment on or participate in the scene that you're both in. Live in the now.

This sounds like a great party BTW. Where do you live?

Naitra · 2015-12-18T11:03:41+00:00

Noice

oragnitized · 2015-12-18T11:35:17+00:00

Massive eye contact. Make certain that you have addressed all your desires prior to going in or embrace nature and walk around freely.

Your roommate must not be the center of your attention however she will be a valuable tool. I would not ask her what she has talked to them about. Just be confident and act as if she has told all of them good things about you.

Crack some jokes if that's your style, sit back and talk about deep celestial stuff if that's up your alley. Whatever you talk or do make sure it is something you can carry on with.

Again eye contact. For any situation. Don't stand with arms folded. Sit straight up but don't be.... Stiff or do. I'd walk proudly. Kudos

thaway314156 · 2015-12-18T12:37:41+00:00

God damn, OP. Can I be you..?

I wouldn't know how to act, as the only guy everything you do will not go unnoticed. If you disappear with a girl to your room, they will know. The girl will also know her friends will know, and depending on her comfort level/your status, she might resist because she knows her friends will judge her.

If you manage to convey high status, then she might go willingly, thinking "hah, I just beat all my friends in bagging the guy.".

If you're really good, maybe you could arrange a crazy orgy with you as the stallion, but it would only be for one night, and it would get awkward the next day. Or plant the seed of thought along the lines "Oh, I know this weed. It will make you do crazy stuff, I don't think any of us can be held responsible for what happens after we smoke this.". It'd be like a free pass to go crazy for the girls.

If you're really the only guy, you're the prize, so act like it. Maybe you can have a drinking game, and add some naughtiness as it progresses. But don't be so eager, be coy, and they'll do anything to make you do what they want you to do. (I'm thinking in terms of e.g. a dare where you'd have to flash the group, the single penis would be a bigger prize than the multitude of boobs).

I think the most probable outcome is you get to know a girl, at the party, she's interested, and either she stays with you after the party or you arrange to have a date later.

Or, maybe they're already planning a wild "bachelorette" party, and you're the unknowing male stripper...

Fumblz · 2015-12-18T20:25:20+00:00

WHERE IS THIS UPDATE?

Nosurrendah · 2015-12-18T03:20:55+00:00

it helps if you're good looking..

Title	My roommate is having a dress up lingerie party. I will be one of a few guys attending.
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Date	December 17, 2015 7:36 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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