[FR]Never assume someone's out of your league

Gman54 · 2015-12-30T12:30:27+00:00

Sounds like one amazing vacation, will admit that this story touched my heart, especially that necklace part at the end, you probably left a REALLY good impression on her. Thanks also for the message you get from this case, defenitley serves as a reminder to just say fuck it and go for whoever you find attractive, leagues are a mind fallacy of insecure thoughts.

freshairr · 2015-12-30T20:37:28+00:00

Good mindset to have, but she picked you up. You really didn't do anything.

LiveLongAndFI · 2015-12-30T19:11:44+00:00

Good for you bro, but it sounds like she picked you up and not another way around. Make sure you don't get used as a ticket out of Caribian islands.

ToastNomNomNom · 2015-12-30T15:34:01+00:00

Fucking A

jonbristow · 2015-12-30T20:56:49+00:00

how old are you?

fitnessguy1111 · 2015-12-31T02:45:57+00:00

good luck with your Dracula musical

Quadroxide · 2015-12-30T13:35:53+00:00

Good God you've motivated me so much now haha I'm asian too and that's actually really interesting CHEERS BRO!!

VernonMaxwell · 2015-12-30T22:36:50+00:00

Because I was a little afraid of getting kidnapped,

smart move. I would have been concerned as well.

You still should have snuck her in somehow. It would have made the sex better. The idea of being caught can do that. Plus, what she does on her own time is her business. Put a hoodie on her, sneak her thru the back door and fuck her till the sun comes up. I used to sneak chicks in my room in college, and it was a male only dorm. Both, the girls and I could have been suspended or whatever, but it was the possibility of being caught that made things just a bit better. She knew what she was there for, no having to sweet talk her or try to get her in the mood. She's there to fuck. Maybe next time.

CodeineCowboy · 2015-12-30T18:34:08+00:00

I feel you man. Good story.

I don't like to tell my story because, well i'm still battling my own issues. But I've got body image issues myself and I remember thinking so much about how I should off myself because I was so ugly, doing the math about plastic surgery and coming to the conclusion that I ought to off myself. In other words, I thought I was fatally ugly to the point that I wouldn't leave the house for long periods thinking my presence alone would catch peoples attention and they'd feel disgust at the sight of me.

And after all that self hatred and fear of my looks offending, what has happened? I've attracted either without directly speaking to or intentionally trying the top three hottest women I've ever personally came into contact with. And ones from entirely different social groups at that. I mean how often do you see a cheerleader trying to get with a quiet metalhead with ptsd?

I used to also tell myself that because was I was a skinny metalhead, nerd, stoner etc that there was no way 'preppy' girls would even look at me, to the point that I wouldn't even look at them much at all or ignore any friendly gestures or subtle or less subtle flirting that came my way. I believed this so much that I believed I absolutely I had to change myself and my social group and hobbies because my own interest's social scenes were not popular with females or only popular with unattractive tomboy women. But so far hot preppy girls have been the ones who have chased me the most. In fact, I think some of the hottest girls i've ever met are the ones who were the most into me and ironically the quickest to get emotionally involved, and because I put these women into an out of my league category in my mind when I first saw them, I think that made me treat them as they deserved, that is to say, I didn't put them on a pedestal because they were so hot, that they basically became men or unattractive women to me. That's how far out of my league I placed them mentally. Unfortunately, I think that's why I had'em wrapped around my finger so quickly and once I would finally understood that they liked me and somewhat came to terms that they actually found me attractive, THATS when my self doubt about everything else came forward times a million. And that part, i'm still working on

NoFlapsGiven · 2015-12-30T21:40:24+00:00

This sounds like a movie.

mmmzesty · 2015-12-30T17:59:49+00:00

Where specifically in the Caribbean did you go to?

mannyrizzy · 2015-12-30T22:43:44+00:00

you sir got me so hyped!!!! Good story!

Aeon199 · 2015-12-31T06:47:36+00:00

What I take away from this is while leagues may not quite exist, extroverts and/or socially-oriented men like yourself do exist, and that's most of the explanation for what happened here.

SirFrooze · 2016-01-02T14:38:16+00:00

why is this deleted?

ofteno · 2015-12-30T15:35:22+00:00

Great story bro, good for you, yeah most of the time we establish our limits

footieno · 2015-12-30T16:49:15+00:00

This story is brilliant...good for you!

2015-12-30T15:09:14+00:00

really good field report man! I had the same issues when I was in high school too. It made me obsessive about working out and eating healthy, but no matter how my body looked I would feel self conscious about it. Being able to look in the mirror and feel happy really is a mental thing

Title	[FR]Never assume someone's out of your league
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Upvotes	228
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Date	December 30, 2015 11:38 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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