Im confused about seductive coquette

CHNchilla · 2016-01-05T15:49:51+00:00

Being legitimately busy > acting hot/cold

letsgetrandy · 2016-01-05T17:00:01+00:00

The coquette is a role to be played by someone who has a high value or is highly desirable, and who knows it. The art of the coquette is understanding that you are the prize, and delaying the seeker's ability to have that prize. But it can only work if you actually are a prize.

Going cold is really only playing half of the coquette. It's about regularly switching between hot and cold, doing the push and pull, two steps forward one step back. It's the long tease, and it's delayed gratification.

joshsway · 2016-01-05T18:23:24+00:00

After a few dates you should have already had sex with her and the balance of power will have shifted in your favor through that, not through this idiotic game.

SublimeScholar · 2016-01-05T16:56:02+00:00

Being dishonest is not a good way to attract women. Playing games like that will either attract no women (if you can't pull it off) or women who play games (if you can pull it off).

Of course, you need to do certain things like kino and making eye contact, but being confident will lead you to being more successful with women than playing games will.

DaygameCoach · 2016-01-05T19:15:22+00:00

There are two types of coquette, Hot & Cold, or Cold.

No, that's not it at all. both coquette types do it from the first interaction. It not hot for three dates then cold...she'll just assume you lost interest and blow out. Besides, you could have slept with her by a few dates.

Hot and cold gives mixed signals and is a type women use a LOT to much effect. Hot guys gaming less attractive women one of the other coquette types because the women will chase them anyway. But, why game less attractive women?

Honestly, I don't think coquette is a very good seduction type for a man. Read up on the other types and see if something else could work for you. I use a variation (no smoke and mirrors) of Ideal Lover, but that is a type you usually need some natural inclination for. It's rare but powerful.

Cuisine, Daygamer.net

stilettonyc · 2016-01-06T05:49:10+00:00

This is not really a role for a man. If the girls is desperate or insecure, yes she may pursue you relentlessly but do you really want that/ What a confident, secure woman appreciates is a confident man. If you have to resort to game-playing because you lack confidence, fake it till you make it.

Title	Im confused about seductive coquette
Author	dumbkidaccount
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Date	January 5, 2016 3:16 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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