What exactly is emotional vomit?

markyb303 · 2016-01-06T16:10:38+00:00

He wrote an article clarifying it here:

BravoPUA · 2016-01-06T17:46:16+00:00

Havent read, but when I saw emotional vomit, I popped in to help.

Some, not all

a little not a lot

no one needs to hear all your past BS, it doesnt help at ALL -even if you think it might help, to get it "out there" it doesnt and is just sad

Hypnotica- "step into a moment of vulnerability"

a moment

that is it

too much= vomiting

joshsway · 2016-01-06T19:51:43+00:00

Honestly, it's better to err on the side of not appearing vulnerable. If you aren't sure, don't do it.

sykilik101 · 2016-01-06T22:01:52+00:00

Being vulnerable means being able to calmly talk about yourself and the things that are important and meaningful to you without letting any of it upset you, instead using those topics as a way to show strength of character. Since they're things you're okay with and comfortable with, you're okay with putting those things out there in a relaxed manner.

Emotional vomiting is when you talk about things that upset you in some way, resulting in making the mood upsetting.

Vulnerability: "I'm in between jobs at the moment. I realized recently that I'm not entirely sure what my passion in life is, and so I'm taking some time to explore the world and myself to see if I can find it."

Emotional vomit: "I'm in between jobs right now. I've been trying for so long to get a job, but no one wants to hire me, and I feel like I'm not good enough or I don't have enough skills to be hired by anyone."

The first one is an acceptance of "what is" and not letting it define you; it's merely where you are right now in life. It shows that you're comfortable with how you feel about your circumstances and that you're in the midst of moving towards something. The second is just venting to the girl the things that upset you, and the way you feel about yourself bleeds through in those words. There's not really any sign of working to improve it, only pain at your circumstances.

Title	What exactly is emotional vomit?
Author	dudegrt
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Date	January 6, 2016 3:29 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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