What do you do if you approach a girl intending to take her out but lose interest through the conversation?

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2016-01-25T11:31:48+00:00

If you want, you can keep texting her for practice on text game. Maybe you'll realize your impression of her was wrong and go on a date with her. On the other hand, don't waste time and start talking to other women.

There are times when I'll get a number but I'll lose interest in the girl too. Either use it to improve yourself or drop it and move on.

DaygameCoach · 2016-01-25T12:35:14+00:00

If it happens occasionally, but you are still approaching like crazy, it's fine. No reason to bother with her...high value men have standards. But for some guys, it's their fears/anxieties that make them lose interest...and it happens all the time, and that is different.

HelicopterSack · 2016-01-25T14:08:40+00:00

Only talked for 10 minutes 1 week ago, didnt text her at all?

Just delete the number, she probably doesnt even remember you

makethegirlsdance · 2016-01-25T15:27:58+00:00

I considered this question, so I'm really glad you asked.. To be entirely honest I feel like sometimes I "lose interest" because of my anxiety to escalate and actually succeed with the girl. It's totally irrational and I'm going to start pushing through this. I didn't know if it were me or her.. some of the comments indicated it is me doing it to myself, I'd agree.

2016-01-25T15:31:45+00:00

What's the problem? If you aren't interested, don't text her.

pqowie313 · 2016-01-25T16:59:27+00:00

If you think you'll get some without too much effort, then hit it and quit it. Otherwise, if you're not interested, then why waste both your time and the girl's?

AttractandSeduce · 2016-01-25T20:11:30+00:00

Well we can say that you practiced getting a girl's number and that is a good thing. It's good to keep that skill sharp.

Don't feel obligated to keep communication with her. She will get the message as you will never respond to her.

Do you think that many girls hesitate to return text from guys that they are not interested in?

penguin_says_slide · 2016-01-25T12:03:44+00:00

Back when I got started, escalation was a big problem for me. I'd go into set, open with no problem, hold conversation pretty well and soon enough I'd find myself getting bored. This girl is not interesting. I don't care about her trip to Venice and her manicure.

If you get bored in set, it's an indicator you're not pushing yourself.

Your brain is sly as fuck. Instead of telling you Dude, you're scared shitless of escalating, let's get the fuck out of here. it convinces you that she's boring, but achieves the same point. You leave the set.

Title	What do you do if you approach a girl intending to take her out but lose interest through the conversation?
Author	throwdex
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	January 25, 2016 10:43 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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If you get bored in set, it's an indicator you're not pushing yourself.