Does anyone here have any experience being a dating coach?

JoeDucard · 2016-02-17T17:18:08+00:00

I've worked in the industry for over 5 years. I was fat, introverted, and depressed. I turned the corner one day when I read the Game and decided to overhaul my life. I lost 100lbs, changed my look, studied everything under the sun, and went out almost every night and approached as many girls as I could. I eventually got really good and taught for years and just recently started up my own project. It's an honor and a privilege to help save guys the time and energy it took me to change my life. It's definitely my calling, but its not for everyone.

jcromero · 2016-02-17T17:50:49+00:00

Mostly you'll start off by helping out your friends informally. You teach them basic body language first, then a bit about opening and conversation. From there you move into routines and in-field practice. Clients learn best by seeing you in action, now that they've been alerted to what to pay attention to

Starting off you don't get paid very much except in like drinks and meals. It's really just a good way to make friends and to help consolidate your own knowledge. Like any sales job, the hardest part is finding customers. Referrals are key here.

Once you do find customers it can be a long and arduous time really re-orienting himself. Dressing better, learning appropriate topics of conversation, and how to be self confident. It's something that takes years to undo a lot of bad habits. Most men lack the drive to fully do it.

For me I enjoy teaching what I know, so that was always the most fun part of the job for me. But for me it wasn't worth my time. I have other things on the my agenda. You can make a lot of money in the right town with the right market

yokhai · 2016-02-17T19:03:38+00:00

I started following the IRC channel, and the main forum at the time: alt.seduction.fast. During college I started helping my fellow nerds meet women at bars and it evolved into getting paid to help guys not be completely socially inept. It grew out of my hands and I didn't want to continue the business so I cancelled that number and walked away from it. Now I just post advice here and help guys I meet throughout my life that need it.

I could probably make it a business again but I really don't want to deal with the scrutiny and derision that exist out there. It's too much hassle.

Charlie_KA · 2016-02-17T21:53:15+00:00

It actually started professionally with some guys I met here on r/seduction, but I'll get to that...

For me, the informal start was just answering questions for friends. They'd seen me grow from a total introvert to someone who was able to walk into a bar and seemingly effortlessly (ha!) attract women I liked. They did what I said and got results.

I wanted to see if it could be more than just me helping friends, so I offered a class via Skillshare. I rented a small room in a co-working space and gave away half the seats for free on GothamSeddit. A few other people decided to join for $15. I think I netted like $30 after the room costs, but that was the first money I ever made.

I had no plan other than do a good job in the hour and a half class, but I was pleasantly surprised that a bunch of guys hung around after to ask questions and two eventually asked if we would coach them 1:1. So we did. Those were our first coaching clients.

It's been 3 years and since then the business has changed and grown a ton. There were a lot of turning points along the way, but the start came from giving what I could away for free or next to free. Then if people liked it, they asked to sign up for more.

It's fun to think back to that beginning hustle. Happy to answer more questions if there are any :-)

whenfoom · 2016-02-17T20:54:12+00:00

I do wrt to text game. One of my favorite hobbies is getting my friends and acquaintances laid via powerful text game.

TrueDevelopment · 2016-02-18T14:49:20+00:00

There is a group of us that used to game together and realised how valuable it is for people that struggle with women and people in general.

So we put a name to our group and started teaching others, we just recently created our Youtube channel.

True Development

TonyDAbsolute · 2016-02-17T18:30:12+00:00

Sure. I've been coaching six years. I wrote an article about how to become a dating coach because so many guys asked me.

lil_steffy · 2016-02-17T19:40:16+00:00

I started by making a commercial to advertise my bootcamp.

I had a lot of great lessons and mindset tricks that I wanted to share with the world and felt that that I just needed the proper exposure.

Here check it out if you need inspiration.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adtU-YhtAVA

Title	Does anyone here have any experience being a dating coach?
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Date	February 17, 2016 4:08 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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