Okay I guess this is not so usual case, but hopefully you guys with experience can help. As I am very shy type of person. I am often in a situation where women actually seduce me and give me obvious clues they want me. But I am unable to do anything about it and I am not even sure anymore what is the major problem here If I am too shy or I have too low confidence or I am just anxious around many people which prevent me from doing what I would like to do.

Lets give you some examples so it makes sense.

1 Having party with colleagues in a hotel room everyone is pretty drunk. I do not drink spirits so I am having just few beers and I am bit high as well. There is a colleague of mine who is actually the one that I like the most and I could feel it is both sided for some time. We are chatting, drinking for some time and there is alot of people around us. Moving to a point, later that night as we are sitting on bed and I am chatting with another colleague sitting nearby. She sits behind me and starts drawing stuff on my back like she was writing something. I am not an idiot I know when things are just friendly or teasing, but this was obvious seducing. Well, what would you do here alfas of reddit ?

2 another example I am on festival with a friend of mine. On the festival we meet up with his friends I never saw before. There is one cute girl there. By an occasion we end up going together on a lets say "rollercoaster" in the areal of festival. As we are standing in line she seems to be quite drunk. Firstly we are chatting regularly, but suddenly she starts asking questions like where do I live(then she says when she is going there and how we can meetup), how old I am and when I say my age, (i was like almost 5 years older) she says what a pity. Like she would like to have something with me if I was younger. Nonetheless she starts touching me and obviously if I wasn't shy as fuck and knew what to do I would do something about it... What you do here guys ?

There is many more, but you should get the point. I am fed up of loosing on such opportunities and then regretting what could have happened, but I didn't do anything about it or fcked up. Hopefully you guys can help.

TL;DR: when being seduced as a shy person how do you manage these situations?