Getting her number

quinntuplets · 2016-11-02T04:56:18+00:00

Nobody is gonna sit here and type out a step by step process to you talking to this girl. If you dont want it to be awkward then open indirect and have a conversation. Look her in the eyes, be playful, kino if possible. If the convo goes well ask for her number at the end.

Or you can just keep watching her walk by and wondering what couldve been.

prozacrefugee · 2016-11-02T06:51:55+00:00

The better question is "how can I meet girls like her and get their numbers?". It is a numbers game, so focusing on this specific girl is a really bad strategy - hell, you don't even know if she's single or not.

As for how to talk to her "hey, I see you walk by every day. What class do you have?" "Hey, I wanted to meet you" "Hi, did you know that Australia isn't really a continent?". It's not what you say, it's WHY you say it. Your intentions matter.

OlleOliver · 2016-11-02T09:44:49+00:00

Just do it!

yummbeary · 2016-11-02T14:45:22+00:00

Just tell her: "I always see you walking by, so what's your name. I'm kurocks! 😄"

Very easy, light, fun. After she tells you her name, ask qualifying questions. If she says something fun, tell her: "Haha, you're cute! Lets do something sometime." She'll say:" Haha ok, like what" and you can say :" Ah dunno, we'll figure something out, whats ur number."

Something along those lines. 😉

theCHAMPdotcom · 2016-11-02T11:22:55+00:00

I don't think you can get too into a girl you have had zero interaction with.

I'm guilty of this as well. In high school I'd usually have a big crush on a girl and rarely act on it, most times than not it would not work out. Frankly it's a numbers game and so many non related variables have to go in your favor for it to work. For example she'd have to be single, emotionally available, attracted to you...if you get to that point you'd have to have chemistry etc etc.

Point being, if you see someone attractive you have to almost impulsively act on it. The rejection stings but not as much as say building up a crush on her for weeks and not acting on it.

My advice to you would be, introduce yourself saying simply "Hey I've seen you a around, I wanted to say hi", make small talk, crack a joke, then say have a good day. Do that once or twice more, gauge her body language and potential interest, if you get the go ahead from those interpretations, ask her out.

Czekraft · 2016-11-02T16:11:34+00:00

What class is it? Maybe you can come up with something smooth. Like if it was math class and you could show a trick with a calculator (there's a bunch of them like a number that is exactly what the person was thinking or flipping it upside down for a message). Ask any 7 numbers and see what it comes to. Then ask her to put her phone number in and see what she gets 😏

XanderS311 · 2016-11-02T05:30:31+00:00

Consider befriending the guy. If he is her BF you'll soon know the score. He'll provide a bit of social proof, and then you can come in under the radar and it won't seem creepy at all.

Don't focus on the number. College is just one big nightclub you need to break ice with her first, show some value and she'll still be around. Start a conversation with her by any means possible, any bullshit ruse will work- people are supposed to talk to strangers at college. Just go up to her (it must appear spontaneous and say- "are you in my .....class", or "you know my friend.....right?" she won't care.

Hollage · 2016-11-02T06:49:17+00:00

I have a similar problem, keep walking by this girl on a fairly quiet pathway everyday and we kind of stare at each other but have no idea how to open.

Noosterdam · 2016-11-02T15:10:40+00:00

Focusing on one girl basically never works, especially in that situation. Got get other prospects, then you'll have a better chance with her.

lamchopxl71 · 2016-11-02T22:19:25+00:00

Here's what you can do: everytime she walks by, count to 3, if you didnt approach then you're a bitch. Now mark it down. That's your bitch day. See your bitch days accumulate until you're sick of it and decide to change. You know definition of insanity yadi yadda.

On approach: I've always liked the honest approach, it's fool proof and you never mess it up. Just tell her straight.

"Hey! Aren't you in Bla Bla Bla class? No? Oh sorry I thought we had a class together. Alright, I have a confession to make. I see you here everyday and I've always wanted to talk to you, so that was literally the best I could come up with as an excuse. I'm kurocks88".

Best of luck buddy.

MichaelMichael8 · 2016-11-02T04:32:19+00:00

Upvote as this is a common issue in HS and college for many guys

Title	Getting her number
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Date	November 2, 2016 4:17 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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