rejected even for simple friendhips.

nighthawkphenom · 2017-06-06T16:26:15+00:00

5'8 is not that short. I have a friend who is shorter and also bald. He just got married to a beautiful woman. Need more details on hobbies, interactions, and etc.

Jack__Knife · 2017-06-06T16:29:47+00:00

You can study medicine for years too, but if you don't put it into practice, you've wasted a lot of time.

Projecting your insecurities may seem like good therapy, but it's really not. It reinforces them. How often do you approach? What type? Where?

dasdrawer · 2017-06-06T20:45:20+00:00

Dude I've been looking into your profile and you really seem to have a huge problem with your self esteem. Maybe pick up just isn't working in boosting your confidence. If you want my advice you'll need some professional help from a therapist before you go out in the field again. Trust me man I was losing my hair since I was sixteen and I was a nervous wreck. That self loathing was killing my game. You got to embrace the shit you got. You'll be fine man. It's not your looks that's the problem, It's you.

Murfdigidy · 2017-06-06T16:05:10+00:00

Read how to make friends and influence people. Great book, you need to start there

DirkDieGurke · 2017-06-06T16:41:22+00:00

5'8" is not short! Fuck you!!!! j/k (I'm 5'6")

Look, trying to help here. Seriously, work on being happy and having fun by yourself first. Be genuinely happy and be nice to other people. Be outcome independent. Work on all things that help with physical attractiveness. Likely, you're just not happy and that's a turn off. You need some hobbies you like, and can share with other people. IE: socialize

I don't know what you look like? But........I've seen fat ass neckbeards with girlfriends, so there is no excuse. There is someone for everyone.

Katastrofa2 · 2017-06-06T16:16:30+00:00

Do you have a problem making male friends?

bjlmag · 2017-06-06T17:01:13+00:00

How are you meeting women? What do you do when you're around them? When you meet women that you only see in a friendly way, what happens that leads to "rejection"? Are you going out of your way to make friends and purposefully being turned down or are you just not really making friends?

threewawway · 2017-06-06T19:38:13+00:00

You've been studying since 2009, but have you actually applied ANYTHING you've read?

I'm looking at the picture you posted 34 days ago and you do not look like someone who's been studying since 2009, you look like you haven't attempted anything at all. Did you at least take the advice you were given back then?

xmaine · 2017-06-06T22:39:03+00:00

Treat women like you would your male friends if you want simple friendships?

Otherwise, don't force yourself to treat others differently with people who aren't compatible.

kalolilo · 2017-06-07T12:31:51+00:00

Your baldness isn't the problem. Your defeated look on your face is. If you walk up to women with that look, they get scared. You need to walk up to them like a boss and smile and have a buyer's mindset(you approach them, but they have to impress you, why should you date them). You also have to kearn how to be a bit cocky, kino, eye contact etc.

GO approach more. With 8 years of study, you should have cold approached at least 500 good looking women.

Yes, your dating pool is limited if you're a bit short and bald, you're not even that short. Just shave it all off and you look like Vin Diesel, is he not attractive? It's all in your mind.

Your dating pool might be only 80% of hot girls that tall, hairy guys get, that's several hundred million hot women for you.

But girls don't reject you for not being super tall or bald, they reject you for being so self-concious about it.

rappingwhiteguys · 2017-06-06T18:41:01+00:00

I'm 5 " 4 and you are not short dude that's pretty average height.

Also I have a ton of female friends and get laid every now and then. Do you try to fuck girls you want to be friends with? Bad idea. Mmm idk what advice to give: be friendly and interested, ask questions, make jokes, see if they want to chill and or do activities with you.

Takka_Tikka · 2017-06-06T19:12:19+00:00

Mate you are definitely not short. Many many many are below 5'8 and Can still make friend and girlfriends. Many men are Also Bald and it does not stop them either, its all in your head. You Need to fix your mindset and Think positively about yourself. Take the advice other people gave you. Not sure if youre gonna read this since you keep making threads. Fix your mindset.

Title	rejected even for simple friendhips.
Author	Ruggero88
Upvotes	9
Comments	16
Date	June 6, 2017 3:39 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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