Got out of a long term relationship and recently got into pickup and I have been largely successful. I get many dates, usually too many to fill in a single week. It’s becoming my natural instinct to try with almost any girl I see that meets my standards. I feel massive FOMO when I pass up an opportunity and I hate that feeling.

I don’t want to end up like those old school pickup artists that are incapable of being in a relationship, but at the same time I am having just too much fun.

There is one girl that really stood out to me that I have been seeing regularly, like once a week. I could honestly see myself with her, but the temptation to always keep searching for new experiences is taking over. I’m afraid I’m getting in too deep. I literally have multiple dates scheduled with other people afterwords. I have a tendency to go the extra mile on dates and build a stronger connection. That’s just what I like doing. Instead of the bare minimum.

Not trying to show off or anything. Just feeling conflicted about this new skill I’ve acquired. I was not like this before I discovered this subreddit. Anyone else go through something similar? I’m not an asshole or player at heart, or at least I try not to be.