Go out speak to anyone whether she is young, adult or old lady.

thebadsleepwell00 · 2020-10-23T20:06:22+00:00

I think improving social skills overall helps everyone.

swb_rise · 2020-10-23T20:27:07+00:00

This statement is valid for many other aspects of life. Great.

slaphappypap · 2020-10-23T20:06:29+00:00

What if you live in iraq and you get killed for dating?

Blocguy · 2020-10-23T20:41:55+00:00

Tf are posts like this? Is this sub a damn tumblr page now?

SUSSMILCH · 2020-10-23T20:49:10+00:00

ah yes, told myself I’d give up smoking but this is exactly what I needed to hear

Itsametoad · 2020-10-23T23:54:55+00:00

Also, if you live in the States how are you gonna go speak to people?

bastardizedpatriot · 2020-10-23T19:54:35+00:00

Yes. Trust the process. Focus on prepubescent girls and octagenarian women. You will be radiating sexy from all that practice. Oorrrrrr you can pursue the girls that are in your demographic, to your standards and liking. But don't start talking to girls that are way out of your hemisphere for age-related reasons. Talking to a 50 yr old woman does not translate to confidence when communicating with a 24 yr old hottie who has options and tangible sex value.

Anywhere-Solid · 2020-10-23T22:19:03+00:00

Can you elaborate on the Instadates? Is that “Instadate” as in somehow contacting a girl from Instagram & actually have her reply back to you? Or maybe you met a girl somehow shopping for Instacart while you were in the grocery store working on a batch & you chatted her up & got the #? How & what one ?

TheManicac1280 · 2020-10-23T22:55:54+00:00

Wait. Why is there a category other then adult?

RedNeck_Styles · 2020-10-24T01:36:56+00:00

At first, I thought it is a post from r/motivation.

captainaeternus · 2020-10-24T11:48:20+00:00

Thank you

imjketchup · 2020-10-24T13:04:34+00:00

Word my brother from another father...or sister

johnnashbutnothim · 2020-10-24T14:11:37+00:00

a lot of people think that tinder doesn’t help, but let me tell you. when you can manage to start putting personality into your texting, it becomes so much easier when you’re seeing people face to face. just remember that it has to be YOUR personality not some facade, or else a video call will just feel extremely awkward, and it just won’t work

edit: this also later leads to how you talk to strangers irl. you become more comfortable throwing in pick up lines, or even just complimenting people fluidly.

mr_Tobbor · 2020-10-24T14:40:45+00:00

Be a monky, a happy butterfly, a gay! Forget you are a man. Because men speak little. They like a girl, they go and speak to her!

Hegemon1984 · 2020-10-23T21:01:13+00:00

Yep, I agree.

Learning game isn't easy by any stretch of the imagination. I started November, 2019 - February, 2020. Took a (forced) 3 month hiatus due to the lockdown. Before starting back in June, 2020 - present. It felt like starting all over again.

I'm at the point of getting consistent solid phone numbers and instadates.

Remember, once you commit to the game, you're in it for the long haul

teeheePersonality · 2020-10-24T00:40:43+00:00

What if I’m ugly and no one wants to talk to me?

I’ve literally had old women say that I look “hideous”.

Davidle3 · 2020-10-24T02:51:51+00:00

That is quite the thought....because don’t we think that.....forget this! It’s taking to long! I’ll show it! I’ll just quit! It isn’t logical at all

zenova123 · 2020-10-24T10:57:14+00:00

Id even go one step further and say go out to delibrately get blown out when you approach... Kill the fear of rejection off totally. Once its dead, your free to open whenever and wherever. More important, you move from a place of scarcity (if i fuck up too much, nobody will be left) to place of plenty (who cares, i know i can meet somebody again).

Cuts alot of neediness out which is handy.

Lord_Grim_I3 · 2020-10-24T12:27:40+00:00

Honestly I am tired of trying/doing this.

Title	Go out speak to anyone whether she is young, adult or old lady.
Author	BestTens
Upvotes	1651
Comments	57
Date	October 23, 2020 5:10 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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