I’ve recently officially started dating one of the girls I went on a few dates with. I did not see this coming primarily because of the way the 1st date started off.

I’ll give you a review of the first date: We decided to meet at a bus station and when I first saw her, I waved her over and once she came over I felt this super gloomy/dark energy.

  1. No hug / kiss
  2. She didn’t even wave back lol
  3. Didn’t even smile. Her face was like stuck in super bitch mode
  4. I remember saying something and her response just being a cold “ok”.
  5. Practically 0 eye contact

Just so you know, I wanted to hug her but I swear there was no positive signals from her. From the lack of smile/emotion/interest, that was no bueno.

God, the initial thought in my head was that this date is over.

So we just continued walking to my car which was about 5 minutes away so I had to make convo. Thank fuck I thought of a good topic and it instantly lit her up. From there, the convo never died.

Fast-forward to a bit later that night, she wouldn’t stop making out with me. An outcome I did not expect based on the beginning.

After multiple dates with her, I realized her persona and she’s just the sweetest person. So now we’re seeing each-other.

Why this was shocking to me is because most people I go on dates with ooze with positive energy when you first show up so this was completely new to me and it definitely threw me off my game.