Pretty much the title. I’ve finally learned and accepted that this is the best way to meet women. Especially for hooking up.

I’ve done this a few times myself, but I notice I get major anxiety every time. I’m realizing I’ll have to do this on a weekly basis just to eventually overcome the anxiety. Preferably sober.

What’s your typical night out alone? What do you do when you’re not talking to anyone? Do you go to loud or quieter bars? Do you dance by yourself? Overall, I’d like to hear several guys’ approaches to this — logistically and your mindset.

Edit: I don’t want to just hook up with women, I meant to phrase it that that’s bars and clubs have the most amount of single women in one place therefore increasing the odds of taking things further with a woman — like getting a number, a date, or hook up.