How did therapy help you with game, exactly?

badideas222 · 2024-10-06T16:33:47+00:00

Trauma therapy did wonders for emotional regulation which majorly affects my game lol

TvIsSoma · 2024-10-06T16:24:53+00:00

It’s helped me become more confident, know what I want, and seek that out. I am less willing to settle for less or accept any poor behavior. I’m also better with my emotions and communication. The women who I want to date are also good at these things so they appreciate it when a man also has these traits.

Worried-One2399 · 2024-10-07T02:37:22+00:00

Confidence hands down. But u can’t think therapy & therapy alone will help ur confidence.

It’s a PIECE of wat made me confident. I exercise (gym) I cold plunge, I force myself to do things I DO NOT WANT TO DO…

I go on multiple mile runs when I’m not in the gym or @ a minimum make sure I hit 10k steps per/day…

I’ve gone on 100’s of dates in my 33 years of existence & therapy helped me own up to my passed and helped me grow intellectually in a # of ways.

I think if u haven’t done therapy, DO IT. It doesn’t hurt to try!

grldgcapitalz2 · 2024-10-06T17:38:14+00:00

remind me to make the effort

GatsbyCode · 2024-10-06T16:36:59+00:00

I personally found therapy a scam and only wasted money trying. Didn't get anything good from it. Only benefits I've had is from self-improvement done my way by me, without any involvement from others.

Brunoclement123 · 2024-10-06T18:14:07+00:00

"therapy" for some people is just institutionalized gaslighting. To me it just told to give up. No, not a chance.

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2024-10-07T06:39:27+00:00

Therapy and seduction training cover completely different topics.

In therapy you are working on figuring out yourself. How to understand yourself, how to live with yourself and maybe how to heal parts of you. I am specifically saying "heal" and not "change", because in therapy it's not about obtaining an arbitrary goal. E.g., if you are shy and introverted, and suffer from it, your goal in therapy will (probably, not a therapist) be to find out whether you are, or if there is another root cause. You will take validated tests and work according to proven scientific techniques. You will learn to accept yourself in large parts, and a therapist will never push you to change unless you want to and never tell you answers, only ask questions.

A coach is an entirely different entity. Here you will learn techniques and tools. If you are lucky, they will pick a style that suits you, more often than not they give you a variation of "just be extroverted", and train you in conversation. Must important difference is that a coach pushes you to change, and tells you what to do.

ColdApproachCoach · 2024-10-07T00:29:23+00:00

I’m a seduction/cold approach coach, and i can tell you that fear of rejection usually comes from:

Fear of ridicule and social judgment.
Fear of making women uncomfortable.
Fear of confirming your own inadequacies.
Fear of the unknown or unforeseen consequences.

1- You might be scared of people laughing at you, talking shit about you, thinking you are a loser, treating you as inferior,… etc

2 - You might be scared of creeping out women, of making them feel wary and uneasy about you, making them feel trapped or pressured.

3 - You might be scared of being rejected because it may lead to feelings of self-doubt, may make your question your masculinity, your desirability, whether you simply are not good enough, whether you are maybe too old…

4 - You may be scared of potentially negative reactions that you do not expect and that if they were to happen you wouldn’t know how to react or manage it. Like what if she calls the cops and you have to explain yourself, or wha if she screams, etc…

I believe i can help you better than a therapist with this issues, because i can not just help you understand this issues and deal with them but also give you practical skills to apply it in action in an interaction. So feel free to book a session for free here if you need help with this issues.

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2024-10-07T02:18:18+00:00

the only therapy that will work 100% is exposure therapy, the therapist might give you assignments or social challenges but for all the money it cost its not worth it, lol, the rules of the game are figured out, gotta go and read the books and then go out in the field and practice.

Title	How did therapy help you with game, exactly?
Author	LustfulLoveQuest
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Date	October 6, 2024 3:44 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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