If you're on dating apps, you probably spend a good amount of time swiping, talking to a few girls at the same time, upgrading your photos and so on. However if you're not using a structured method or a funnel you're wasting your time.

When you use a funnel, you keep the interactions moving from match to a brief conversation to whatsapp to date to sex all done efficiently and without any emotional bullshit.

When you don't use a funnel you waste days, you lose track of conversations you don't move the interactions forward, you keep getting frustrated because girls make you emotional... all bullshit things you can avoid with a funnel.

Here's how good seduction looks like with a funnel, you must follow this process no matter what to remove emotions and to save time:

  1. You match with the girl. You don't message her first, you give her 1 day to message you. Why? Because you want them to invest into the conversation and a girl that starts a convo is much more likely to be chasing you, which is how it should be. They have hundreds of men waiting in the matches area, when she chooses you, you're in a very good position. You're special to her.

  2. For the girls that don't message you after 1 day, you send them a feeler message. You can comment about something in her photos or interests or you can use a generic opener that elicits an emotional response such as "I like how weird you look" using push and pull.

  3. Based on her response you continue the conversation with 2 or so messages keeping it lighthearted.

  4. After that, you find out her availability. Does she work this week? Is she studying today? Simply ask her "what plans do you have for today / tomorrow". If she says working or some other shit you ask her when she is free.

  5. Then you send her your whatsapp number and tell her to text you there with a reason such as "hit me up here ____ so I can tell you where we'll meet up". This is the first compliance test. You want her to do things for you. That way she's more and more invested into following YOUR lead.

  6. Most girls will message you, others will tell you "text me instead _____" or "I can't find your whatsapp" some bullshit so that you fall into her frame. Girls that straight up tell you to text them instead are not that invested into you yet. You can give her time to text you or if she isn't responding just send her a basic message on whatsapp.

  7. On whatsapp you simply figure out the logistics by finding a common place to meet. I personally always go for the house date, meaning I ask her for her location and then send her a uber to my place with a reason to come such as board games and the likes. Then I try to fuck her in my place, never forcing it tho. You'd be surprised how many times it works.

  8. When you take her out at some public place you walk around / do an activity for 30 minutes then depending on your mood you go somewhere else that you'd like to go, or invite her to your place right away.

  9. Once at your place, show her all the rooms to remove the creep factor. Girls when they come to a new house are always paranoid about someone hiding in the house. It's natural. Then you play some music, serve both of you a drink, open up a youtube channel about some general but entertaining content, play board games, dance together, etc. The options are limitless.

  10. During the entire time from seeing her to her being at your place you're touching her, leading with your hands, caressing her even. That way she gets comfortable with your touch. Girls love when masculine men touch them the right way.

  11. Then you simple seal the deal with a kiss and then move to the bed and fuck her.

  12. Some girls will reject your kiss by giving you the cheek or by pushing you away, that's okay and a good sign. She's trying to see how you respond to rejection, she's thinking "is he a man that gets aggressive when he gets rejected? is he a man that pushes my boundaries? is he a man that gives up at the first sign of resistance or is he a persistent man that goes for what he wants no matter how many times he fails (within reason)?"

No matter what, remember that she accepted to coming to your place and she's staying, there's no bigger indicator of interest than that.

All that is great, you simple ignore the fact that she rejected your kiss stay cool and continue as if nothing happened. You don't make a joke about it, you don't act all weird about it, you don't even mention it.

You can expect the hottest girls to give you that sort of test.

Then you try it twice or three times and simply guide her to your room to get both undressed. If she rejects you 3 times you simply kick her out. Order her an uber to her place and forget her. If she really likes you she will reach out and continue seeing you to have sex eventually. Most girls won't have sex at the first date, usually at the second and even third.

Beyond the third date you're wasting your time.

Anyway, that's an example of a great funnel that will get you from no pussy to constant sex using online dating. You can use it for girls you meet in the street or during nightgame. It's the same logic.

What do you think? Let me know in the comments.