If women find my face repulsive, is there really any point to approaching them?

IsuckatGo · 2017-06-16T11:50:39+00:00

It would be a problem if women held looks as important a factor as men do. Remember that what they find attractive is different!

For men looks are 75-100% of the equation, for women it's more like 25-50%.

I have a picture on Tinder doing a modeling shoot. It's on all my online accounts. I get ZERO matches. Online dating is bullshit Nebraska a waste of time.

You know what's worse than an ugly face? An ugly attitude towards yourself and your life. Have some self love, and respect. You are worth more than your looks, and luckily women care more about things like your attitude towards yourself and life.

Besides, you can serious improve your looks with good fashion, body language, hitting the gym, and looking at your facial posture! The last bit might be cool for you. Super hot girls understand facial posture. Do you walk arouns looking like a deer in headlights or a lazy lion looking for that deer? It's facial posture! Talk in the mirror and study will smith and brad pit's expressions. And forget that they're studs. I have a big ass nose and I make girl wet. Why? Because of my vibe, self love and self respect that I'm worth something good, not my face.

Read the subtle art of not giving a fuck, and models by mark Manson. Also check out @sexystyleforjoe on instagram.

If you take my advice you'll not only attract more women naturally, and have more confidence to put yourself out there, but you'll also not worry about something dumb like "my face isn't sexy to women". Seriously, it's a waste of time. You have a lot of control over this situation If you work on yourself both physically, and more importantly emotionally.

Woujo · 2017-06-16T12:45:48+00:00

So.... wait a second.

Your face is not actually repulsive.

And you've never actually approached a single woman in real life.

Yet you've decided there is no hope for you?

Do you realize how negative and crazy you are being?

the OPPOSITE of how most dudes on here talk about constantly being eye-fucked, getting IOIs, etc.

those guys are lying.

JustaBabyApe · 2017-06-16T10:47:35+00:00

STOP!

Online dating is no easier for a super model than it would be for the average joe. I hate and despise online dating sites, especially Tinder. I can go out to a social event and be "eye fucked" by a dozen girls, but one week on Tinder and I was matched with 1 person. One, that's all. Online dating is a women's world, not a man's world.

Get yourself OUT THERE. Go to public parks, go to crowded areas. Just talk to women, don't be shy. Many will reject you, but some will be intrigued by your sheer confidence to speak to a stranger. Confidence sir, is attractive.

Go out there and get them and don't allow an app to depict your attractiveness.

Edit: I upvoted, not because I agree with you, but because I want this post to get more recognition.

2017-06-16T14:57:11+00:00

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LimitedContributor · 2017-06-16T15:27:16+00:00

Online dating is for cat fishers, dude. Watch how the results instantly change as you approach women in person. Also, you don't need face if you have a fit body. Dudes with that combination are pretty much fearless and killer fighters.

I seen a RSD related video with how an overweight pulls models with his personality that fucked me up. Especially with the situation I'm in.

THE_Aft_io9_Giz · 2017-06-16T14:00:43+00:00

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giggity23 · 2017-06-16T15:17:28+00:00

Pm me and I will give u my opinion

NilacTheGrim · 2017-06-16T21:41:07+00:00

My half sister once said "A man needs to be slightly less ugly than the devil."

Use your ugliness to your advantage. Be physically fit and healthy. Even if you've got a hideous face some woman will find that irresistible. Just be fuckable.. that is.. be somewhat in shape (preferably very in shape).

JimBeamAndCoke2016 · 2017-06-16T22:21:45+00:00

For the record, I think that the importance of looks in attracting women is downplayed way too much around here, and I don't buy this talk that looks only equates to x percentage with women. In my opinion, and from experience, looks are equally important between the sexes. I'm not saying that it's looks all the way, as other factors such as confidence also come into play.

Having said that, I've seen your pic and I reckon you're a pretty good looking guy, certainly far better looking than I am and I still have some (although not much) success with women. Most of the beliefs you have are purely mental and that you've fallen into a bad cycle of wanting validation from girls to prove you're not bad looking, but when you don't get it, it confirs your beliefs. I'm constantly in cycles like that and the only advice I can give is to plow on until you get a positive response, and believe me you will eventually.

As for online dating - forget it. You have to be at a level of attractiveness that excludes probably 80% of the male population to see any success.

letsgetrandy · 2017-06-16T15:48:19+00:00

Dude, you need to stop. You're just pissing us off.

enkae7317 · 2017-06-17T01:01:15+00:00

Unless you're literally shrek, you should do fine with getting girls. Dress well, get a good haircut, and either shave or have a stylish facial hair and that's good enough. Oh and shower too please. Hygiene is really important.

And online game should not be the only thing you do. It should only help to implement your lifestyle. Go out and open some sets I have a butt ugly friend and he gets lays and numbers all the time from the bars/clubs when we go out. Like the dude is seriously butt ugly. He's had girls call him ugly straight up in conversations. It's how you roll with it that determines everything.

Title	If women find my face repulsive, is there really any point to approaching them?
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Comments	49
Date	June 16, 2017 10:27 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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