Yea, don't ask me how this happened but it turned out to be a massive waste of time. Hope you guys learn from my mistakes. I didn't have a bad time all in all as I took advice from what you guys posted previously to this FR.

Date

  • 6/26/17

Mood

  • Wanted to see if I could get some redemption

  • Assumed she wanted to bang

  • Not really ready for her bullshit

A quick pre-cursor, after my last date with this girl I was still pretty upset at the situation but like others have said I wanted to drop it and not give her so much power over my emotions. I was getting ready to let this girl go completely but she texted me talking about some random nonsense that I should have seen through as an attention trap but did not. She was interested in watching a movie with me to which I happily replied "sure!" like I forgot about all of the annoyances of less than 24 hours ago. (booty will make you do that...) We went back and fourth for a few minutes while I was going to go for a quick motorcycle ride, she mentioned that she "wanted to see a movie tonight" and also "wanted to go for a ride with me" now of course guys I took this as, she didn't want to date but maybe she was down to get naked. I did not want my anger to get the best of me and thought that I should go for it because why not? The movie we agreed on was Despicable Me 3 but I was a bit fast on my toes after I sent the text to plan on a time for a meet up.

I then told her "On second thought, let's watch How to Train Your Dragon 2, I've always wanted to see the second part" those of you quick on the uptake realize that this movie is not in theaters and hasn't been for a while. So she would need to come back to my place which was basically implying to her that I was trying to smash. She agreed and we settled on a time which would be tonight. I was getting excited as I thought I would finally get some good boning done but then calmed myself back down in order to not go in with expectations, I didn't want to be let down yet again.

She lives in the city and I was on the motorcycle so I had to pack up a helmet and some gear for her and ride on in. Luckily rush hour had just ended and traffic wasn't bad, once I reached her place I texted her that I was out front and then she came outside. Once I saw her I realized why I was interested in her in the first place. Her face isn't all of that but her body is pretty sweet to be honest. She's kinda got that Dr. Girlfriend thing going with her voice so it's a bunch of up's and downs. We suit up and hop on my bike, I am paying extra attention to where her hands go and if she gets touchy feely with me. As we were riding out everything seemed normal and I wasn't going to kino her due to the bad response I got on the first date.

We arrived at my place and I was getting a cold but not standoffish vibe from her, it was like she was just in it for the free ride, a movie and bounce. We got chipotle too so possibly free food as well. I gotta stop doing that really. At this point I decided that, if I get her into my apartment no matter what happens "I win" I used this sort of as a mantra to get over the fact that I more than likely was not getting laid tonight. We open our food and start eating, drank a beer and just talked while I set up the movie. We were sitting on my couch next to each other, when I got up to get the remotes she changed positions to sit on the floor next to me and eat. It felt like she did it to simply be more comfortable since my coffee table and my couch are at an awkward angle to eat from. Once the movie started we were still sitting next to each other eating. Then I decided if she didn't make a move halfway through the movie I was going to. This girl was in my apartment and I have no roommates she MUST know what's up.

About 20 minutes into the movie she gets up from next to me and goes to the other side of the couch while saying "Hey do these recline?" I told her that they did and she got more comfy. The problem is she was now way the hell on the other side of the couch, and just schooching closer to her would have been weird. So I got on the other side of the couch and got comfy on the other recliner. We now had this valley in the middle of the couch where it was just empty space. Felt like she was a mile away and I wasn't sure how to close it.

Some time later I got up to go to the bathroom and paused the movie, this also let me check where we were at. We were a bit more than halfway through, after taking a quick leak I came back and was thinking that it's now or never. I waited for a while for the on screen action to subside and simply asked her "You want to cuddle?" Her reply, and I quote "Eh..No Thanks" I responded by just saying "Ok" and letting it go. I probably shouldn't have asked her but I was not getting any warm vibes from her at all. It was all cold, uninterested and neutral.

After the movie ended we cleaned up a bit, threw some shit away and got suited up again to leave. We didn't exchange many words and things teetered on the edge of awkwardness. When I took her home I did about 25-30 above the speed limit cause I honestly wanted her ass to go away, she was being annoying and weird about what she wanted and the games weren't worth it with her anymore. Once we got back to her place I didn't even bother to leave the car to hug her goodbye, she gave me a side hug since I didn't take my seatbelt off and she left. I immediately hopped on my phone and texted my friend that things went south, he asked earlier wanting me to update him on how it went. All in all I say that this was a waste of my time.

Home Mood

  • Not as mad as I was on the first date with this girl

  • Hope she texts me so I can GHOST her ass

  • Happy that I was reading the mood well