How much does gaining muscle and being lean help with attracting girls and hooking up with them?

BestSC86 · 2017-07-18T05:00:48+00:00

A whole other world of dealing with chicks which would shock dudes who don't want to put in the work.

But don't expect open praise from most regular women...older women out of your dating range will compliment you and say things like you should be a model and such. Young girls will just stare and blush... Girls in your dating range though will not openingly go ga-ga over you because girls are terrified of rejection even more than your average guy BUT here is the thing...they ALL are suddenly much nicer to you and willing to talk, chat and give you all the opportunity you want to close the deal.

As long as you are a jacked dude who isn't a arrogant asswipe that is.

It truly is another whole world.

aCOWtant · 2017-07-18T03:50:32+00:00

I've never been either super skinny, or super fat, so maybe my opinion here is meaningless. But anyways, my transition was from skinny-fat(dad bod!) to appearing in-shape, athletic, and potentially owning a 6-pack beneath my shirt.

And you know what? I think losing those 15-20 extra lbs made me much more fuckable.

But that's what I think, what I've chosen to believe, and thus the energy that I radiate. I lost weight and added a bit of muscle all for myself, to be a better, more attractive version of who I was a year ago. My positive attitude on life, and confidence within myself bled over from the gym into my every day interactions. I'm more assertive, I have a louder voice in the room, and I own it.

I think women are much less phased by appearance than we are. They want someone who's charismatic, who can control and can work a room, all awhile making them feel like a queen among princesses.

Looks help, but I'd rather be oozing in confidence and wit any day. One of my prettiest male friends in LA turns into a babbling idiot around women. Sure, women at the bar might entertain our conversation because look at the mysterious, handsome guy over there at the end of group... but they stay for my buddies and I who bring the fun.

Bring the fun, be confident, and get your body right for yourself. There's no one magic element to seducing women.

ExtraCheesePlease88 · 2017-07-18T05:18:28+00:00

I'm 5'10 and weighed about 170 before working out, and attracted girls still, but when I started working out and weighed about 190, I noticed Id get certain type of girls. The ones that like guys for looks only, and didn't care about convos much, just for hook ups. All in all girls will always like guys who look fit, I wasn't super fit with abs etc, but had the big arms, chest, shoulders. Girls love to grab arms.

RespondsWithImprov · 2017-07-18T04:21:29+00:00

It's a huge deal. World of difference

Joshua3109 · 2017-07-18T13:13:12+00:00

http://imgur.com/PaX9T5G

That is how I look, and I have noticed it making a difference in my game. For example I hear women say that im hot and such semi regularly. But this is usually with women whom I know or have some sort of social status with.

For example I live in Res right now and would consider myself a popular charismatic guy. These traits are key in attracting women. If I were to be quiet and not go out I would not very often get women if at all.

But there are guys here who are not as in shape as me who have slept with more women. This is because their standards seem to be lower. Not to put them down or anything because they are amazing people, but I choose to go after the girls who dont nessecarily voice that im attractive or are harder to get. So there is another issue with being considered attractive. You may choose to go for the more beautiful women and might end up with less women than the average joe. I am still learning game myself!

I went on a little bit of a tangeant there and I apologize. But I reccomend Attraction isnt a Choice by David Deanjelo. Amazing book on inner game.

Live_it_up_321 · 2017-07-18T17:24:24+00:00

It makes a massive, massive difference. In the last couple years I shed a bunch of fat, down to below 10%, and built muscle. Not an obscene amount - somewhere between “ottermode” and “bodybuilder” - but now I look like an underwear model, no exaggeration whatsoever.

And let me tell you, the difference is night and day. Especially when I’m at the pool or beach, I get constant expressions of interest from subtle to blatant, women of all ages and levels of attractiveness. And they really do treat you more nicely. Women whom most men would consider bitchy tend to be warm and open with me. Moderately attractive girls overtly hit on me and lose all pretense of coolness.

Even fully clothed, it makes a difference. The low body fat brings out my facial features, but also makes my arms and torso look good overall in a well-fitted shirt. Don’t ever underestimate the power of nice forearms either. If they are muscular and veiny, as mine are, women will absolutely be attracted to that. They’ve told me so themselves.

Do it if you can - maximize muscle while minimizing fat. One way is through intermittent fasting (look it up), but you also have to work out like a beast and watch your diet. Looking like an underwear model makes an enormous difference, trust me.

49_1 · 2017-07-18T03:10:58+00:00

duh.

Xodak · 2017-07-19T16:01:10+00:00

Makes a big difference but you also have to have the personality to take advantage of it. My all time peak when it comes to my ego is at music festivals. Its normal to go shirtless so you won't seem like a tool and girls will notice.

The difference is normally I talk to a girl for a bit first I realized i don't have to really say anything when I have my shirt off probably because these girls already decided they want to make out with a guy with a six pack in front of her friends.

Also from experience I get more attention being lean than I did when I was bigger. I'm not obsessed with putting on mass like I used to be so I'm back to 165 at 5 11. But at 185 I felt stronger since I filled up my clothes so it depends on what your goals are.

Eezay · 2017-07-19T18:02:17+00:00

It doesn't change anything about the fact that you have to approach. I was very skinny and now I have a very toned body, and the only thing that changed is that I'm getting more compliments and funny reactions when girls undress you. BUT girls won't magically flock on your dick or some shit. You still have to approach. It just sometimes makes it easier if you do.

The most important thing though is that it gives you self confidence. Hitting the gym will have you love and worship your own body eventually, which is a great feeling.

JimBeamAndCoke2016 · 2017-07-18T23:34:35+00:00

No difference at all. Went from being overweight to skinny and then to toned / muscles, which is where I'm at now. Get no attention or looks from women, nor do I get checked out. If you get physically fit and you have good looks too, then you're golden.

Title	How much does gaining muscle and being lean help with attracting girls and hooking up with them?
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Date	July 18, 2017 2:49 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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